Please enter your first name.
Email required.
Email invalid.
E-mail is already in use.

By clicking "Find Your Matches" you agree with the
Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log In

×

Open the Doors to Asia

Think of AsianDate blog as the number one destination for finding out everything you need to know about not only Asian women, but also as a window into their daily lives and the richness of Asian cultures. Let us be your primary source for Asian dating advice because our long personal experience has given us insight that we’re happy to share with you. Simply put, we know Asian women, their hopes, dreams, and desires. Gain access to the tools that will teach you about Asian culture and popular Asian destinations. You may even meet your future beloved Asian love! All of this and more can be found on the AsianDate blog.

How To Quickly Recover From A Bad Date | Asian Date

How To Quickly Recover From A Bad Date

We all go through the experience of having a bad date. It’s inevitable. Ultimately, after a disastrous meeting, we feel let down and disappointed. How do you bounce back from a bad date? How can you make sure that you will be able to fix yourself when your next bad date happens?

Tips For Bouncing Back After A Bad Date

Let’s get one thing clear. Bad dates are bound to happen, and it’s not totally your fault. What you need to do is adjust your perspective from seeing the experience as a failure to seeing it as a life lesson. Here are some tips that can help you bounce back from a bad date quickly:

1. Evaluate

First, you need to evaluate what wasn’t working. The first few minutes of the date will reveal the answer. Was your date spending too much time on his or her phone? Were you tired when you went out? Evaluating factors like this will let you know what to avoid next time.

2. Take Responsibility

After you evaluate the situation, you have to see your part in it. If you were talkative or making rude remarks, then own up to it. You may not have done anything wrong during the date, but you may have misjudged your attraction or compatibility.

3. Give Yourself Time

Don’t jump on another date, just yet. Give yourself time to process everything. Rest if you must. You don’t want to risk one more bad date even before you recover from the latest one.

4. Use Your Sense Of Humor

If you had a bad date, so what? It’s just one of life’s many spices. As mentioned, you have to change your perspective and see the good in what happened rather than treating the situation as something that tells of who you are as a person.

5. Muster The Courage  To Get Back On The Horse

As soon as you have aligned your perspective, you have to muster the courage to get back into the dating scene once more. Don’t lose hope. A great date might just be around the corner.

There will always be bad dates in your future, but now that you know how to bounce back from one, you won’t have a hard time. For more tips about dating, read more posts on our blog.

How To Do A Proper Follow-Up For A Date | Asian Date

How To Do A Proper Follow-Up For A Date

Do you know how to do a proper follow-up? Most of us don’t. In case you’re not familiar, a follow-up is when you ask someone out on a date after chatting through a dating website or texting back and forth consecutively. It seems easy enough to ask a girl out online or through text, but most men allow anxiety to get the best of them.

These Tips Will Help You Do A Proper Follow-Up

Most men always think about the what-ifs. For example, some may think “What if she says no?” or “What if she’s not interested and she ends up disappearing?” All of these are valid worries but these questions we have in our heads hinder us from getting that first date. Here are some tips to ease the anxiety and deliver a proper follow-up for a date:

Have Something To Say

Avoid asking how she is. It’s pretty common question but it’s something that can be answered with one word. If you ask this, she’s likely going to say “Good”, then what? You’re making it hard for yourself and for her. Ask questions that can be answered with full sentences. For example:

  • What did you do this weekend?
  • Did you ever do A or B? (granted that you talked about her doing something)

Don’t Ask

After your opener, the next thing that you might think is to ask her out by saying, “Should we grab a cup of coffee tomorrow?” No, don’t ask. What you need to say is a statement, “Let’s grab a cup of coffee tomorrow.”

Don’t Wait

After your good experience of chatting or texting each other, why would you wait to ask her out? Forget about the three-day dating rule. If you like her or have a good feeling about her, ask her out as soon as possible.

Skip The Jokes

A proper follow-up would be great if it’s done in a witty or funny way, but just to be on the safe side, it’s best to skip the jokes. All you need is your opener and then your date statement.

Doing a proper follow-up isn’t hard to do. All you need is some confidence in yourself and some practice. Once you get over your anxiety of asking someone out, you might just realize that there’s really nothing to be anxious about. For more dating tips, read other posts on our blog.

New Relationship DONT's You Need To Adopt | Asian Date

New Relationship DON’Ts You Need To Adopt

It’s a challenge to know your limits when it comes to being in a new relationship. Everyone goes through the phase where everything is new and the mood is euphoric. We don’t really think about limits when we are totally distracted by the immense feeling of love. What we do is follow our hearts. This s a good thing, however, we need to keep in mind that there will always be DON’Ts that we need to follow and respect.

Remind Yourself Of These New Relationship DON’Ts

We have to respect limits. It’s for the benefit of the new relationship anyway. If you smother your new bae too much, your new love might not last as long as you want it to. Here are new relationship DON’Ts that you need to remind yourself of:

1. Don’t avoid talking about important matters.

When everything is new, it’s hard to deal with the first fight you have. Even if it’s just a tiny argument, it’s still going to be challenging because it’s the first sign that everything may not be as perfect as you thought. You need to deal with the situation by calmly talking about it. Never avoid discussing important matters even when the topic makes you a bit uneasy.

2. Don’t see space as something negative.

With all the love in the air, why would one need some space? Good question, but wrong perspective. Space is good. Space will allow you and your partner to breathe. According to some experts, the most ideal frequency for new couples to see each other is only twice a week.

3. Don’t imagine perfection.

However you imagine your partner to be, you have to realize that you may not have painted an accurate picture of who this person really is. In time, you’re going to find out. It may burst your bubble but remember that no one’s perfect. You have to accept your partner’s flaws if you really care about him or her.

As mentioned, it’s going to be a challenge for you to remember all of these new relationship DON’Ts but try your hardest for your sake and the sake of your new relationship. For more tips about making relationships work, visit our blog.

Ways To Have A Drama Free Relationship | Asian Date

Ways To Have A Drama Free Relationship

Admit it – we all wish we could have a drama free relationship, but that’s not always possible. When you are with another person, you have to realize that you are with an individual who may not have the same views as you. This person may not have the same likes, as well. With that said, is it possible to have a drama free relationship?

How To Achieve A Drama Free Relationship

What does drama free even mean? Does it mean that you don’t fight with your significant other? Not necessarily. When your relationship is free of drama, it means that there is harmony in your relationship. Issues get resolved right away and the tense air dissipates quickly. It doesn’t mean that you don’t have fights. To achieve a drama free relationship, consider the following:

Know What Matters To You Most

You have to gain a realistic view of situations rather than just having your anger get the best of you. For example, does it really matter that your partner was ten minutes late for your dinner date? Does punctuality matter that much to you? Is the entire situation worth a three-day fight?

Never Dwell On Arguments

As mentioned, you are going to have disagreements. There’s no magical solution to that. But, if you want a drama free relationship, you have to address the issue and resolve the disagreement quickly. You shouldn’t force yourself or your partner, of course. But, you have to come to a point where both of you agree to talk things over after an hour or so. Don’t let your argument simmer.

Application

It’s always great to talk things out but words will just be words when there’s no application. You have to do good on your word. If you promised your partner a day’s worth of your time then go through with it. It’s cliche but actions do speak louder than words.

You’re still going to go through a lot before you achieve a relationship that’s free of drama. But, if you focus and work on your patience and communication, you will get to that place eventually. For more tips about improving relationships, read more from our blog.