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The Best Ways To Cure Relationship Boredom | Asian Date

The Best Ways To Cure Relationship Boredom

Do you agree that we will all eventually experience relationship boredom? Maybe for those of you who are in a new relationship, the answer is no. However, those who have been in a relationship for years know the truth. Relationship boredom is non-negotiable. It’s a sad fact, but there are ways to cure it without saying goodbye to the person you’re with.

Five Means To Remedy Relationship Boredom

As what has been said, there’s a cure! And, if you are reading this now, it means that you may be experiencing this kind of love rut, but you care enough to see what you can do about it. You can start by following these tips:

1. Rekindle the flame by recreating your past dates.

Recreating your past dates will automatically bring you back to a time when you and your partner were passionate about each other. What you can do is choose a date that was really special. For example, where did you go on your first date?

2. Learn to love what your partner loves.

Does your partner always go to a yoga class every Thursday? Why not join him or her? Learning to love what your partner loves will be the bridge for your re-connection. If it’s something new for you, all the better. New experiences that are shared bring couples closer together.

3. Let your partner know they are important.

The most common cause of relationship boredom is a lack of communication. The root of this could be your careers or individual lives. Something as simple as reaching out to your partner and letting them know that they are still a significant figure in your life will fix this right up.

4. Try a new hobby together.

Another common cause of relationship boredom is familiarity. When you have been with the person for a while, it’s highly likely that you will say you know this person from the inside out. This isn’t something that’s negative in a relationship, but, most of the time, things get predictable. Both of you need to step out of your comfort zones and try something you’ve never done before.

5. Ask your partner to help you with something.

How can asking help from your partner relieve your boredom? Simple. You’re creating a bonding moment between the two of you. It could be anything from gardening to cooking. You choose.

Our list is short but you can get creative with your method of re-connection. The more of it you do, the closer you and your partner will get. For more relationship advice, check out more of our posts on our blog.

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The Type Of Love That Could Save Any Relationship

Did you know that there are different types of love when in a relationship? More specifically, there are seven. Whatever your specific type of love is right now, it can reveal a lot about the dynamics of your current partnership. There are couples who operate with a type of love that’s flourishing, but, there are also those who operate under the type of love that’s destructive.

The Type Of Love That Produces The Highest Relationship Satisfaction

In any case, it’s always beneficial to identify whatever type you have so that you, as a couple, can work on your problems. Before we go any further, let’s briefly identify the types of love, as well as their meanings. As mentioned, there are seven:

  • Infatuated – a kind of love that’s high on passion only. It’s usually observed or experienced in whirlwind romances.
  • Fatuous – a kind that’s high on passion and commitment, yet low on emotional connection. Most long-term couples have this kind of love.
  • Empty – this type is very unfortunate. Empty love is high on commitment only. This means that a couple is staying together with emotional disconnectedness and without physical desire.
  • Companionate – this kind of love can also be seen in a long term couple. Most likely, people who experience this kind of love may have been friends before they became a couple. Thus, this relationship is high on intimacy and commitment, but not exactly hyper when it comes to passion.
  • Romantic – romantic love is very common. The intimacy and passion in the relationship is high, but future plans may be a little blurry as commitment is at a low.
  • Liking/friendship – this kind of love will have a couple feeling very connected. The two people may not have had physical contact or a strong desire for each other, and future plans have not been inserted into the conversation yet. Mainly, this type is high on intimacy only.

From among the types, several psychological researches say that intimacy and commitment contribute to the satisfaction that couples feel. Passion can also be another key element to a well-balanced and happy relationship. This means that you need to work on all three elements: intimacy, commitment and passion, and there actually is a type of love high on all three components.

It is called a consummate love and you are lucky if you find it.

What To Do When You Are Running On Empty Love

There is still hope when you feel like your love has already been emptied. It’s a case of putting in effort into the relationship to fix it. That’s why it’s essential to really take a good look at your relationship and assess it with honest eyes. It’s not too late. Ending the relationship will not always solve the problem. Seek counselling if necessary, and do the best that you can to open your relationship up to intimacy, commitment and passion. For more dating and relationship tips, read more from our blog.

Easiest Last Minute Halloween Costume Ideas For Couples | Asian Date

Easiest Last Minute Halloween Costume Ideas

It’s already Halloween! Do you and your partner have your costumes already? If not, it’s not the end of it all because you can still whip up a witty couple’s costume that can catch attention at parties with this list of Halloween costume ideas. What’s great about this list is that you can DIY your costumes in a jiffy, and still have enough time to make the party.

Easy To Do DIY Halloween Costume Ideas

Of course, you don’t have to dress up when you go to the parties you’re planning to attend. However, Halloween only comes once a year. When else can you dress up like a scary monster or a super hero, right? We suggest the following costumes:

1. Peanut Butter And Jelly

Perhaps, the most commonly known of all the sandwiches is the peanut butter and jelly combo. What you can do is take a brown shirt and a red shirt. Simply label the front of the shirt with “Peanut Butter” and the other one with “Jelly”.

2. Where Are The Waldos?

Have you ever seen the Waldo activity books? It’s a kid’s book that requires you to find Waldo among the sea of people. Waldo wears a striped shirt, red and white, a bonnet and glasses. If you have striped shirts already, all you need are glasses and bonnets.

3. Lumber Jack Couture

Why not dress as lumber jacks? All you need are denim jeans, a bonnet, suspenders and plaid shirts. Your partner can spice it up by wearing denim shorts and boots. You can do the same by showing your lumber jack muscles in a tank top and suspenders.

4. Zombies

Zombies are probably the easiest monsters to dress up as because it only requires tattered clothes and a bit of makeup. If you have old clothes with you, just rip them up. Put black eye shadow under your eyes, mark your cheeks with lipstick, so they look like fresh wounds.

5. Vampire Couples

Thanks to movies like “Twilight”, it’s much more believable for us to dress up like vampires with regular clothes on. We can do away with the capes. Dress in black, use black eye shadow to deepen your eye bags and then apply red lipstick on the sides of your lips so they look like blood dripping.

Now, wasn’t that easy? Putting together all the costumes on this list will probably take you a few minutes. You and your partner will be ready to go out partying as a monster couple in no time. For more dating and relationship tips, check out other posts on our blog.

Perspective On Infidelity: The Difference Between Men And Women | Asian Date

The Difference Between Men And Women’s Perspective On Infidelity

Infidelity is a common problem among relationships. When the deed has been done, it’s possible we can’t find a solution or move forward because men have a different perspective on infidelity than women. Have you ever thought about the difference?

Men Vs Women: Perspective On Infidelity

Almost all couples subconsciously set an invisible line when it comes to infidelity. In most cases, couples don’t really discuss where the line starts and ends, but it’s common knowledge for both people in the relationship not to cheat. What qualifies as cheating, however, is where the problem starts.

Sexual infidelity affects both men and women in the same way. But, emotional infidelity is much harder on women than it is on men.

Men don’t really categorize emotional infidelity as cheating because it hasn’t gone any further. If no physical contact has been made, it’s not cheating at all. Women, on the other hand, view infidelity as something done outside of a relationship that the other person doesn’t need to know about. For example, talking to a boy your partner doesn’t like, commenting on photos of men your partner doesn’t approve of, and more.

Relationship Success Post-Infidelity

So it’s pretty obvious how this could cause added friction. Nevertheless, men should know that when you have something good in your hands, it’s not worth it to mess it up with chatting with other females. You may not see it as infidelity but anything you don’t want your partner to know about can hurt her deeply. It can cost you to lose, most probably, the best thing that has happened in your life.

Despite this, there is still hope. According to evolutionary psychologist Dr. Trond Viggo Grøntvedt, partners and spouses who have been cheated on rarely respond by doing the same act. Most likely, they withdraw and keep their distance despite still being the relationship.

If you are the offender, what you can do is slowly establish the trust again by:

  • Giving your partner space. This should give him or her time to process what happened.
  • When both of you are ready, talk things out. When you do, don’t assume that it’s automatically for the sake of getting back. You to be honest in assessing the relationship, identifying if there’s something in there that’s worth salvaging.
  • Whatever the decision is, respect it.

Your perspective on infidelity is important. It should be aligned with your partner’s perspective so that both of you are consciously aware of your limits. For more relationship advice and fixes, check out other articles we have on our blog.