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These Traits Make You Husband Material | Asian Date

These Traits Make You Husband Material

Every time we meet a girl we like, we want them to look at us as a person who is husband material. The problem is the traits that can make us husband material aren’t very clear to us. Do we already have these traits? Or, do we still need to work on ourselves so ladies will look at us as someone who they can marry?

You Already Have Most Of The Characteristics That Make You Husband Material

When you think about being husband material, the first thing that comes to your mind is probably the ability to support. Yes, being financially stable is good. However, it is not the only characteristic that you must possess. There are more important traits that make a man fit for the married life:

1. Trustworthy & Reliable

A good husband someone that you can trust and is someone you can rely on. Being trustworthy means that you are honest and truthful. And, being reliable means that you mean what you say.

2. Family-Oriented

The next trait is family-orientedness. A person who is close to his family or who knows how to take care of them will have a smoother experience when he has his own family in the near future.

3. Adventurous

Why does a good husband need to be adventurous? Well, so he can lead his family on different adventures during the weekend. No one wants to be married to a guy who is always on his couch, watching TV or playing video games.

4. Accepting

Definitely, no one is perfect. A good husband will be accepting of his future wife’s flaws and acknowledges the fact that he has flaws too. He also recognizes that things can’t be perfect all the time.

Being able to support a family is wonderful. It’s going to lead you a step closer to having kids (if that’s in your plans). Remember, though, that you have to be more than just a person who can provide. You have to be committed and you have to have solid plans for the future. As the woman you are dating is seeing this side of you, she will know that you are marriage-quality. For more dating and relationship tips, read other posts on the blog.

This Is How You Find Love Again After A Bad Relationship | Asian Date

This Is How You Find Love Again After A Bad Relationship

It takes time to really recover from a bad relationship, and then have the courage to find someone to love again. It’s not easy to get over a broken heart. However, if we persist we’ll realize that it’s hard, but not impossible. We still find love again, no matter how man bad relationships we’ve gone through.

You Will Find Love Again If You Are Proactive

Everybody goes through a bad relationship. We can’t really control our emotions all the time, so it’s possible and even normal for us to fall for the wrong person. If we allow the bad relationship to be toxic, then we can blame ourselves, but know that we have the capacity to get out, heal ourselves, and find love again.

1. You’ll benefit from self-reflection.

The first thing you do is reflect. Ask yourself why you have been in several bad relationships? Could it be your choice of partners? If this is a pattern, then you have to conclude that you need to change your behavior and your perspective.

2. Avoid rebound relationships.

When you are in a bad place, it’s easy for you to fall for people that show you a bit of kindness. This is why you have to protect yourself. For example, if you went into online dating, but you’re not ready to yet, you might fall for the wrong person. Generally, you have to protect your emotions because you don’t want rebound relationships.

3. Give yourself enough time to heal.

You never want to jump into the dating scene if you are not ready. You’ll know when you’re ready because you will feel it. All of us has baggage that we carry, but if your baggage still feels heavy or unbearable, it’s best to spend time improving and healing yourself.

4. Bravery & Confidence

Finally, when the dust has settled, you have to muster the confidence and bravery left in you to get back to the dating scene. Well, that is if you want to date even though you have fully healed. If you want to take a break, then by all means do. But, if you know that you are ready to love again, there’s no reason to stall yourself.

If you truly want to find love again, it’s important that you first work on yourself. You cannot give love if you don’t have it within you. Forgive yourself for all your mistakes in the past so you can start fresh. For more tips about dating and relationships, read other posts on the blog.

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This Is How You Practice Your Communication Skills

One’s communication skills are important in starting and maintaining a connection with one’s significant other. Actually, in whatever situation we’re in, we need good communication skills to convey messages appropriately. The problem with us is that we rely on the skills that we already have so we don’t see the point in improving our communication abilities.

Tactics That Will Improve Your Communication Skills Significantly

You may have read plenty of tips on how to improve your communication, but most of them are too complicated to be understood and remembered. What we all need are practical tips that we can practice every day:

1. Listening is a vital part of communication.

Listening is vital because you need to receive and interpret the message conveyed by the other person correctly to respond the right way. It’s like completing the process of communication.

2. Be aware of you and other’s non-verbal behavior.

Your non-verbal cues are as important as the verbal ones. Experts say that the non-verbal cues are actually more accurate in conveying what we really feel. If you can read this from the person you’re talking to (your partner, for example), then you can respond the right way. At the same time, you need to watch out for your own actions so you don’t send the wrong message.

3. Focus on one issue at a time.

Of course, we want to talk about anything and everything all at once so we feel like we are productive. On the contrary, doing this will just make you scatterbrained. If you really want effective communication to take place, it’s best to talk about one issue at a time so you can concentrate.

4. Talk with love in your voice.

One more thing that we need to watch out for is our voice. Sometimes, we don’t notice our pitch rising up, or our voice getting louder when we get emotional. Always remember that you have to speak with love and kindness in your tone.

Essentially, you just need to listen, practice awareness, focus on just one issue first, and then be kind. It is that easy to steadily improve the communication skills that you already have. Once you’ve had enough practice, you will see your romantic relationships, as well as non-romantic ones, improve. For more relationship tips, read other posts on the blog.

How To Get A Girl To Ask You Out On A Dating App | Asian Date

How To Get A Girl To Ask You Out On A Dating App

When you are on a dating app, the main goal is to find a gorgeous date that you can have a great time with. Then, hopefully, when everything is right, we can move things to a more serious level – get into a relationship. But, to change things up, what if you know how to get a girl to ask you out?

How To Get A Girl To Ask You Out: Give Her A Bit Of A Nudge

It has always been the man asking a woman out on a date. In these modern times, however, things have changed. The ladies have discovered their own sense of independence and freedom from past norms. These days, a woman online has more than enough confidence to ask any man out. Try the following steps on how to get a girl to ask you out:

1. Start A Conversation

Of course, you have to start a conversation with the person you are interested in. Start by saying hello, then followed by something witty. For example, you could say, “Hello, I noticed you like Game of Thrones. Who do you think you would be? Daenerys Stormborn or Cersei Lannister?”

2. Keep It Going

If you did your opening line correctly, you should be having a chat conversation with your lady on your dating app. The next step is for you maintain the conversation so your potential date doesn’t get bored. As you try to do this, don’t be too obnoxious by asking too many questions. The conversation has to flow naturally.

3. Try The Nudge

The last step is the “nudge” and it is the most important. You can do the nudge by answering the last question that your potential match asked. For example, if your lady asked, “What do you do in your spare time?” Just answer this, then try saying: “I think my last answer was boring. Don’t worry, I’m actually fun in real life.” Now, you can probably tell why this step is called the “nudge”. You can try other nudge lines too, like:

  • “You know what, I also love coffee as much as you do.”
  • “I’ll feed you as much ice cream as you want.”

Try this little experiment and see how it works for you. Just remember that you shouldn’t do step #3 when you haven’t done the first two yet. Everything has to be conducive in order for the nudge to work. On top of this, you also have to be a gentleman, charming, and a great person to have a conversation with. You will get the hang of it when you practice. For more relationship and dating tips, read other posts on the blog.