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Myths About International Online Dating

What’s stopping you from trying out international online dating? One main reason is probably the rumors or myths that you’ve heard. There are plenty of stories on the internet and accessing them is as simple as typing the word “scam”.

The truth is not all of them are true, and this post is all about debunking those myths. Get your notes ready because you’re going to want to remember the things found on this list. Hopefully, by the end of the list, you can change your mind about the whole international online dating deal.

You Can Forget About These Things While International Online Dating

Myth #1: You’re a loser when you date online.

Admit it or not, the majority of the population these days still thinks that men or women who online date are unattractive slobs who cannot get dates offline. On the contrary, there are plenty of good-looking, physically attractive people who prefer online dating. Even celebrities like Lily Allen, Adelle, and Halle Barry have been known to have used online dating at some point in their lives. Here’s another point: have you seen Russian ladies that sign up to online dating sites? Do they look like unattractive slobs to you? Have you seen the beautiful Asian women who also sign up to popular Asian dating websites? Do they, too, look like what was described in the myth?

Myth #2: They’re all SCAMMERS and GOLD-DIGGERS.

The truth is, you’ll find a few scammers and gold-diggers in the online dating world, especially nowadays. It’s unavoidable because there will always be people in this world who will take advantage of other people. The trick is to find a lovely lady and then get to know her. You can then watch out for red flags as you talk and get to know each other. Always be alert, but you shouldn’t close yourself on the idea of finding someone over the internet just because of minor setbacks like scammers.

Myth #3: All the ladies are after is a Green Card.

Again, it’s just like what was said with scammers and gold-diggers. There are some who have insincere intentions. There will always be people like that, and you might even have some around you right now. The point is, you shouldn’t assume that a lady who’s willing to meet foreign men through international online dating is only after a Green Card. There are plenty of stories out there of internet couples whose relationships have stood the tests of time and difficulty. Go ahead and Google it!

Myth #4: Age matters!

Who told you that age matters with international online dating? If you check out what most ladies’ profiles on AsianDate say, you’ll realize that a lot of foreign women want someone who’s more mature. If you’re worried about your age, you shouldn’t be. You might just be surprised at the responses you get from ladies.

Myth #5: Translation Blues

Probably, most foreign men tend to shy away from international online dating because of the whole language barrier deal. Many view it as an obstacle, and it is true that a lot of foreign ladies do not speak English fluently. Their English might be on a level that’s understandable when chatting or talking on the phone, but may not be enough to really express themselves. It’s not a problem because, if you like someone that much, there’s always language classes for either you or your lady. There are also translating services that a lot of online dating sites offer.

Now that you know the truth behind all of these five myths, has your mind changed about online dating? We hope so. Don’t forget to share this post with a friend who’s thinking twice about trying online dating out.

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Not So Obvious Mistakes You Are Making In Online Dating

If you haven’t had any luck when online dating yet, maybe its not your luck that’s the problem. It could be the way you date online. Have you ever considered that? If you haven’t even thought of the way you online date as the source of your date-lessness, it’s time you wake you up to not so obvious mistakes you’re making when online dating.

Those Obvious Mistakes You’ve Already Corrected Might Not Be The Only Ones You Are Making

You’re forcing someone to reply to your messages.

You might be doing this but are unaware that you are. One way that you could be doing this is if you constantly send messages to ladies that have not replied to your previous ones. The truth is, you need to take a hint. If a lady hasn’t replied to your message after three days, you have to know what that spells out. When online dating, sending and replying to messages have to be done using your instinct.

Just “Hi” and then nothing.

Sending a “hi” is a start but if the lady on the other end says, “hello” back, what’s next? Saying nothing or just sending a smiley is a definite deal breaker. Why? Because it is a conversation killer. You have to at least say something mildly interesting to keep the conversation going.

You’re being too braggy.

When online dating, telling the other person you’re chatting with how great your life is isn’t bad at all. Doing too much of it though (i.e. bragging) won’t land you dates and relationships. When a person brags too much, the other person that’s listening is put off because, as everyone knows, bragging is a sure sign of low self-esteem and the lack of confidence.

You did not do your profile right.

One way of failing when online dating is not setting up your profile correctly. If you haven’t put in the words to attract potential partners, you’re definitely making it hard for the ladies to reply to your messages since they don’t know anything about you. You could be a stalker! That’s actually it! A blank profile with an old photo spells exactly that – stalker. Write something nice about yourself and update your profile picture with a recent, nice-looking photo of you.

You’re not proactive.

Sometimes, you have to reach out to people instead of waiting for someone to reach out to you. This is what you have to do when online dating. If you haven’t gotten any “hits”, smileys or messages yet, why not send some of your own to encourage people to check out your profile and see what kind of guy you are. Online dating is easy but you’d have to stop being lazy after you’re done with setting up your profile.

Building a wall that no one can climb.

Online dating definitely has its reputation. If you went into this form of dating focusing on the negatives, the tendency is for you to build a wall that no one can climb. Don’t let your guard down totally but you’d have to at least open up a door when you’re looking for someone you want to be in a relationship with.

Not doing these not so obvious mistakes will not grant you dating ultimate success, because it takes more. Avoiding these mistakes, however, will better your chances of finding someone who you can be potentially romantic with and that’s better than nothing.

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Unavoidable Rules For Dating Foreign Women

Dating foreign women may look easy but it’s not. It revolves around a set of rules that you need to follow in order for you to date successfully. You won’t find these dating rules written anywhere (except here) but generally, they are just based on common sense – sort of unwritten (and now written) rules about dating women who are from other countries. You’ll find this advice useful if you want to date foreign women.

Never Forget These Facts About Foreign Women

Rule #1: Women, as men, do have the same subconsciousness

Whichever country your lady comes from, you generally have to treat her the same as every lady you’ve met. There are, of course, exceptions to the rule, since some things are culturally conditioned. But most women, however, respond to confidence. It won’t matter what her cultural background is or her societal background, when she sees you as someone confident, you are on the right track.

The next thing is their wants. Again, there are exceptions to this when dating foreign women, but generally women want to settle down with someone who they can connect with and someone who they can trust. Even if a woman will not admit to this, she cannot hide this in the long run. Be honest, loyal and listen to what she has to say, and you’re all set.

Rule #2: Don’t bother asking her to teach you her language

The “please teach me your language bit” only works during the beginning of the relationship where lots of flirting is in place. In the long run, it won’t really matter because you won’t learn anything. The reason why you won’t learn anything is because you’ll be focused on other things like impressing her or getting your relationship to the next level.

Rule #3: Long term or temporary?

Rule number 3 says that you have to decide whether you want your relationship to be long term or temporary. The main reason for this (besides common sense) is to avoid hurting the other party. You don’t want to mislead as much as you don’t want to be misled, right? So, early in the relationship, or maybe even before the relationship starts, make sure you both define what you want. Of course, this also applies to relationships in general, not just when you are dating foreign women.

Rule #4: Do make an effort to learn about her culture

As much as learn a language isn’t useful, learning about woman’s culture is almost mandatory when you’re dating and it’s not only you who needs to make the effort. She needs to do it too because it would be beneficial for the both of you. You don’t have to go into a library. All you have to do is learn as you go along, and that will help you learn more about her also, which is basically why you do it in the first place: to understand her better.

More Rules to Discover

There are actually more rules to discover but we just gave you the basic ones. The rest is up to you to figure out. Dating foreign women could be a fun experience but you need to understand certain rules in order for you to be successful at it. Good luck and we hope that you find the foreign love of your life.

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It’s Time You Found Out These Truths About Dating

Despite us having ideal scenarios of how our dating life should go, we don’t always get what we want. It’s the sad truth, but no one ever realizes or focuses on these fundamentals that allow us to take control of our dating life and to gain a better perspective of it. We hate to burst your bubble, but you need to finally know the 5 harsh truths about dating.

Truths About Dating You Possibly Don’t Want To Hear

Everyone thinks that they’re prince charming and princess damsel.

Have you ever thought about your dating skills? By dating skills here, we mean “game”. Be honest, how is it? The reason why we ask is this: most people in the dating scene, of course, think that they’re all that and then some. You should be asking yourself if you’re part of the “most” crowd because in dating, the expression “fake it till you make it” doesn’t apply. Build your confidence up slowly instead of faking it half of the time.

Have you looked in the mirror lately?

It’s only natural that people have set standards of who they want to meet. That’s not a problem at all. It, however, becomes one if you’re too caught up on the list of perfect qualities you need in a partner that you forget to examine yourself and ask, “Am I ideal for the potential partners I’m making connections with?” Don’t forget to focus on self-improvement, is what we’re saying.

A slew of dating tips.

We’re sure that this is not the first website you’ve gone to for more tips on how to meet women online and just women in general. No worries, we don’t mind, but you need to know that you can actually just pick out the dating tips or advice you truly need. See what works for you and what doesn’t. This is not a one-size-fits-all kind of deal.

A lot of preconceptions.

We know that you are the way you are because of the different experiences you’ve gone through in your life. With these experiences come preconceptions and we tend to take that with us into our relationships. Do you believe that a woman’s place is only in the kitchen? Do you believe that it’s a man’s job to control the relationship? We’re sure that most, if not all, have very good reasons to them but, most of the time, these can do more harm than good in a blossoming relationship.

Change is inevitable.

There are people who do not like a change to even just the simplest of things. We have to accept, however, that change will be coming whether we like it or not. This is the moment that you need to prepare for because there will be great obstacles that will really test out what you’re made of. Take the first step by accepting that things will eventually change – for the better or for the worse.

Harsh but True!

We know that most of the things you read on the list were hard to read but trust us when we say that it will bring you a lot of benefits in the future, given of course that you’ll follow the recommendations and have made your own adjustments as well, accepting these truths about dating.

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