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Dating Topics You Can’t Go Wrong With

Typically in both online and offline dating, the first thing that draws your attention to someone is their physical appearance. After that, of course, the only way to turn an initial spark into a real connection is to start a conversation. Here are four go-to dating topics to discuss with women that will set your relationship on a right course.

Dating Topics You Need To Stick To If You Want A Guaranteed Good Start

Her friends

A women will reveal a lot about herself by the way she talks about her friends. Are they adventurous, outgoing and crazy? Or do they like to stay in and watch TV or read books? Most likely, her friend group will have a mix of both. Many aspects of a woman’s personality will be reflected in the other women she spends her time with.

Pop culture

When you’re meeting a woman for the first time, it’s unlikely that you have many common experiences, let alone shared acquaintances. Pop culture serves as a neutral common ground where you can establish similar interests, or learn about something unfamiliar to you. Sports and books are fair game, but it’s even safer to start with music and movies, which are generally more widely consumed.

Travel

Even if you or the woman you’re speaking with haven’t traveled much, the topic of travel opens up discussions of goals and future aspirations. A woman’s answer to What’s your dream vacation? tells you about her desires for exploration, relaxation or both. And if she has traveled, asking Where’s the strangest place you’ve ever been? gives her the opportunity to tell a story that will get you both smiling and laughing.

Animals

If you’re one of those guys that divides all of humanity into the categories of dog people and cat people, this topic will help you out tremendously. Or maybe you’ll meet a woman with a deep affection for her guinea pig, tortoise or snake. Regardless, women (like men) love talking about their pets, and, with any luck, the enthusiasm she has for the most important animal in her life will carry over into your conversation.

As you’re talking to her, make sure to read her verbal and physical cues. Not all women have the same interests, and they like to talk about different things. But if you can figure out what a woman is passionate about, you’re off to a great start in making a connection.

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How To Make Your Online Dating Experience As Good As It Can Be

Many people prefer online dating to in-person dating because they feel less pressure and it gives them a chance to truly realize what they’re looking for. Others, however, go the other way, using the technology to do broad, quick, thoughtless searches for companions. Here are three ways to avoid falling into that trap of a bad online dating experience.

Online Dating Experience Is How You Make It

Be honest about what you’re looking for.

People participate in online dating for dozens of reasons. Some people are looking for a life partner, some people are looking for friendship, some people are looking for a purely physical relationship—and all of those things are fine! The problems arise when you lie to yourself (and others) about what it is you want from the online dating experience. Keep it real, and you’ll be much better off in the long run.

Avoid “algorithms.”

Some of the bigger dating websites out there claim to be able to mathematically pair you with people you’ll be compatible with. On AsianDate, we steer clear of algorithm-based matching because we know that not only do these services sometimes cost hundreds of dollars, but, truth is, they don’t usually work. If you’re looking for a “real” dating experience, turning to mathematical formulas is a step in the wrong direction.

Take the time to read profiles.

In a world where some people consider swiping right on their Tinder app to be a romantic experience, it can be easy to forget that the key component of forging a connection with someone is, well, actually getting to know them. Online dating offers the great feature of user profiles, which provide you with insight on personalities and preferences. Remember, people are more than their pictures.

What’s great about these tips? They’re all easy to do. Online dating has evolved into a rich, complex experience over the years, and there’s no reason you shouldn’t be able to engage with it in a deep, meaningful way.

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Dos And Don’ts Of Searching For Love Online

Thanks to popular demand, we’re back with more dos and don’ts of online dating. Don’t forget to check out our other dos and don’t posts, but before that find out what you should and shouldn’t do when you are searching for love online.

Searching For Love Online Will Be Easier When You Learn This

DO: Move things forward

Emailing and messages are a great way to start, but you can only get to know someone so well from written exchanges. At a certain point, it’s times to make things verbal and, eventually, visual. When the time is right, AsianDate’s Call Me and CamShare features are a great way to advance your correspondence.

DON’T: Move too quickly

Phone calls and CamShare are awesome, but not on the first exchange. Don’t set up a phone call with a woman you’ve barely talked to—it will be awkward for both of you.

One of the girls on AsianDate says: “Letters and emails might seem a little impersonal, but it’s actually really charming when a guy puts time into writing a thoughtful note. That definitely is something that would make me want to get to know someone better.”

DO: Say what you like in a woman

It’s totally cool to tell a woman the traits that you want in a partner. If you’re looking for someone who loves nature and traveling and wants a long-term relationship, then there’s no point in wasting your time talking to the queen of the Netflix marathon who just wants to be friends.

DON’T: Talk about your ex

It can be easy to get caught up in comparisons, but trust us: talking about your ex-lady is always a bad move. Even if you’re telling your new gal how much better she is, she’s probably not buying it—she’s wondering why you’re still thinking of your ex at all.

One of the girls on AsianDate says: “I once had a man tell me directly that he wasn’t looking for anything serious. He sounded kind of apologetic about it, but it was great. I wasn’t looking for anything serious, either, so we immediately knew we were on the same page.”

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Your Online Date Likes You If She Does This

Online dating affords you many communication options and opportunities, so it’s never hard to get in touch with someone. But similar to in-person dating, your online date can be full of ambiguity, mixed signals and wondering what the other person is thinking. To help you out, we’ve put together a list of three tell-tale signs the woman you’re communicating with online is into you.

Online Date Will Show You These Signs If She Likes You

She replies quickly to all your messages

This isn’t to say that if someone doesn’t reply quickly to your messages, she’s not into you. Not everyone has a schedule where instantaneous responses are possible. But if she is constantly getting back to you shortly after you contacted her, then that’s her way of showing you that she cares and is invested enough to put in the effort.

Your small talk is interesting

No matter how exciting your life is, there are going to be days where not much happened. How does she respond when you talk about a boring day at the office? If she’s interested in the small, minor details of your life, it shows that she wants to learn as much about you as possible and that she cares about what you have to say.

She’s open with you

Many people are very closed off about their personal life while talking with others online, and with good reason. Not everyone is worth opening up to, and those private details can only be shared with someone important. So, if you find that a woman is starting to let you into some of the more intimate aspects of her life, it’s a sign that you’ve earned her trust.

Reading between the lines is important. But above all else, just listen to what she’s saying. If she likes you, she’ll find a way to make it quite clear.

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