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Psychological Tactics That Can Solidify Romantic Relationships | Asian Date

Psychological Tactics That Can Solidify Romantic Relationships

For most of us, it’s difficult to think about ways to improve our relationships with our partners. What we can do is learn different psychological tactics that can help improve our sense of connection with the people we love. Maintaining that connection is a must of we want our relationship to feel more passionate.

Simple Psychological Tactics For Lovers To Try Out

So, how can psychological tactics help improve any romantic relationship? They align your thinking and present better ways of coping with negative feelings. They also teach you to foster positive interactions with your significant other:

Expectancy Effect

What do you expect your partner to do in a given situation? Do you expect your partner to act correctly? Or, do you think otherwise? With expectancy effect, we can positively influence our partner’s behavior with positive expectations. For example, if you tell your partner, “You’re very kind,” it’s more likely that he or she will be.

Positive Support

When your significant other made a mistake or is stressed, what do you normally do? Do you gloat and say, “I told you so”? Well, it’s not going to help. What will help, however, is something called positive support. Listen to your partner. This will help him or her cope with difficult situations.

Reciprocity Norm

Whenever your loved one does something nice for you, you’re more likely compelled to return the favor. This is what’s called the reciprocity norm. What you need to do is keep the cycle going positively so you’re in a relationship where you do good things to each other all the time.

What’s great with these psychological tactics is that each one has been tested to work. Pick one tactic and see if it works for your relationship. For more tips and tricks about dating, read other posts on the blog.

This Is How Modern Courtship Should Be Done | Asian Date

This Is How Modern Courtship Should Be Done

When you think about courtship in the context of modern dating, how do you think would you define it? For most of us, when we say the word “courtship,” we think about the old days where the man has to bring flowers and visit the lady at her house, with the supervision of a guardian. Of course this is not what modern courtship is about.

How Men Should Perform The Modern Courtship Ritual

Everything is already digital so it is safe to say that modern courtship doesn’t involve visiting anyone at their house. However, men should take note that the essence remains the same. In the past, courtship is all about allowing the man to make the move and take the lead. The updated version should be similar. So, how can a man perform the modern courtship ritual?

1. Take the time to learn about each other.

Courtship is all about taking the time to get to know the person you’re interested in. Although you are aiming for a romantic partnership, you should not hesitate to build a friendship to serve as the foundation.

2. Do things for your lady.

You have to be the perfect gentleman. This includes opening doors, helping your lady to her chair when you are on dates, tidying up your room when you’re doing a video call, and the like.

3. Allow the relationship to happen naturally.

Never play games. Never force the relationship to move faster. Just let it run its course in its natural pace. Keep doing what your doing, and don’t forget to be straight-forward and honest about what you feel.

4. Make long-term decisions.

You are courting someone because you eventually want to be in an official relationship with them. You are not doing this because you just want to play around. Your decisions should move you towards being in a serious relationship with the person you’re courting.

You may think that courtship is no longer necessary, but it’s still popular in several Asian countries where ladies expect the man to take the lead. It’s best that you are updated to better your chances with Asian ladies. For more tips and reviews about dating, read other posts on the blog.

Do You Have High Standards Or Unrealistic Expectations? | Asian Date

Do You Have High Standards Or Unrealistic Expectations?

Whenever we’re dating, we always need to check our expectations. If they’re too high, we might be nit-picky when it comes to the flaws of potential partners. On the other hand, have you ever wondered whether your high standards are unrealistic?

Having High Standards Is Not The Same As Having Unrealistic Ideals

The most common misconception we have is that high standards are equal to unrealistic expectations. No, they are not the same. And, not understanding this could be our downfall in a relationship. So, how would you know that your expectations are too much for a potential partner to handle? It’s simple, you can easily tell if your preferences are impossible to attain. For example:

1. Mind Reading

If you expect your partner to know what you need all the time, then your expectations are absolutely unrealistic. Yes, your loved one may be able to tell if you’re sad, or hungry, but not all the time because the way we convey our emotions are different each time.

2. Zero Arguments

It’s impossible for any relationship to have zero arguments. Couples argue about the smallest things like what color to paint the bedroom, so never expect to have a 100% peaceful relationship. Don’t worry though because the conflicts you’ll have will make you stronger as a couple if you get over them.

3. Endless List Of Flaws

Do you always roll your eyes whenever you see your date’s bad habit? Well, no one is perfect, not even you. If you have this unending list of deal-breakers, then, yes, you have become too nit-picky.

As you can tell, only a comic book super hero like Superman or Wonder Woman can fulfill the mentioned expectations on the list. Don’t compromise the standards you have, but if you’re expectations are somewhat similar to those on the list, you have to adjust them. For more relationship and dating tips, read other posts on the blog.

2019 Relationship Advice You'll Appreciate | Asian Date

2019 Relationship Advice You’ll Need

Did you find the person who is right for you in 2018? If you did, that’s great. At this point, you have to work hard to foster the connection you have. This will give your relationship the best chance of lasting longer. You can start by refreshing yourself with some 2019 relationship advice.

2019 Relationship Advice That Will Update Your Insights

What did you focus on last year? Did you focus on making your relationship stronger? Or, did you just go through each day not really having a purpose in mind for your relationship? In most cases, it is probably the latter. Don’t worry since most people are just the same as you. This year, however, if you want things to improve, you need to consider the following 2019 relationship advice:

1. Pay More Attention To Your Partner

You probably paid more attention to your phone than your partner. It’s important to give your partner a bit of your time, even if it’s just for doing little things. For example, let’s say you’re sitting on the sofa and watching a TV series. A 5-minute exchange about your thoughts on it isn’t significant to you, but it’s actually small moments that will fuel your connection.

2. Go Through More New Experiences

If you feel like things are getting boring, it’s probably you’re fault. Well, you and your partner’s, of course. You need to start experiencing new things together. Doing this will bring you closer according to experts.

3. Consider The Importance Of Alone Time

You may not have seen the importance of spending time alone, but it’s important that you do this time around. Being by yourself allows you to center everything and to deal with your issues before you go back to your partner.

If you want your relationship to improve and last longer, you have to be more aware. Be conscious of your needs, as well as your partner’s, so you know exactly what to do in every situation, especially in arguments. This is your year to step up the game and become more mature as a partner. For more relationship tips and reviews, read other posts on the blog.