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Points That Will Help Achieve A Healthy Relationship

We all want to have a healthy relationship. The problem is that we may not know where to begin to have this kind of relationship with the person we’re with. Most of the time, although our good attentions are there, we carry excess baggage into the new relationships we form. As a result, we have a union that’s less than ideal.

Get Yourself On Track To Having A Healthy Relationship

What we need is to refocus. We need to identify, first, the aspects that make a relationship healthy. After that, we can exert all of our focus and efforts on achieving each of the aspects. Below, we’ve listed down different points that a couple needs to work on to have a healthy relationship:

1. Realistic Views Of Love

It’s nice to think about your relationship as that of Romeo and Juliet’s or other movie or story characters’. However romantic the idea may be, it’s simply not realistic. Mundane issues, as well as big ones, will arise. A couple who will make it accepts that problems are inevitable and is ready to face everything together.

2. Tiny Errors Are Not A Big Deal

Instead of assuming the worst when a small mistake happens, a couple in a healthy relationship doesn’t think too negatively of it. For example, being late to a dinner date, forgetting to pick up a package, not delivering clothes to the dry cleaners. These mistakes are easily pardonable.

3. Team Work

Some couples tend to compete with each other in all aspects of life. Whether it is financial, emotional or physical, there are couples who tend to one each other up. That’s not going to work when you’re aiming for a healthy relationship. Act, instead, as if you were part of the same team. Where one is lacking, the other should step in.

4. Taking Responsibility

It’s hard to admit that you are wrong during arguments. However, a healthy relationship requires it. Instead of pointing fingers, it’s more ideal to admit that you need to work on something.

5. Trust

Security is a big thing in a healthy relationship. When your partner hangs out with his or her friends, you don’t feel like you need to worry because you are secure in what you have. There are minimal trust issues and both of you know that you are in it for the long haul.

These are five points that you need to work on when you want to have a healthy relationship. You won’t be able to achieve these points overnight, but the more you do these, the more that your relationship will improve. For more tips on how to strengthen your relationship, check out more posts from our blog.

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What You Need To Know About Dating Women In Their 30s

When you’re dating women in their 30s, you have to know a couple of things. It’s important to know these things because you need to be on the same page as them. If you’re not, you might not get the kind of relationship you want because most women in their 30s have very specific goals in mind.

What’s Inside The Mind Of Women In Their 30s

No matter where you are in life, if you’re dating a woman in her 30s, you have to understand a few things. Listed below are the things that run through these ladies minds. Make sure that you take note of the following:

1. Women in their 30s want something honest.

Most women at this age go into serious relationships. They don’t just date around for the heck of it. You have to keep in mind that they’ve already had the time of their life in their earlier years so messing around isn’t in their vocabulary. There are some that are the exceptions to the rule, of course, but it still pays to be honest and sincere.

2. Women in their 30s already know who they are.

Let’s be honest. When most of us were younger, we played the dating game well. This isn’t the case when you’re in your 30s. Most people have a good sense of who they are. They have clear principles and set standards. You need to respect those principles and standards.

3. Women in their 30s want to meet a man who’s smart.

It’s not just about the looks anymore. Most women in their 30s could care less about what their date looks like. They look at other factors like security, sincerity, family-orientedness, and responsibility. You have to be smart to successfully date women in their 30s.

These are all very basic points. The main idea is to really be on the same page as the woman you’re dating. They take life seriously. Although they might want a bit of fun from time to time, it’s not going to be like dating younger women where the focus is mostly on having a good time. For more tips on relationships, read the rest of our blog.

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Ways To Have A Drama Free Relationship

Admit it – we all wish we could have a drama free relationship, but that’s not always possible. When you are with another person, you have to realize that you are with an individual who may not have the same views as you. This person may not have the same likes, as well. With that said, is it possible to have a drama free relationship?

How To Achieve A Drama Free Relationship

What does drama free even mean? Does it mean that you don’t fight with your significant other? Not necessarily. When your relationship is free of dramatic events, it means that there is harmony in your relationship. Issues get resolved right away and the tense air dissipates quickly. It doesn’t mean that you don’t have fights. To achieve a drama free relationship, consider the following:

Know What Matters To You Most

You have to gain a realistic view of situations rather than just having your anger get the best of you. For example, does it really matter that your partner was ten minutes late for your dinner date? Does punctuality matter that much to you? Is the entire situation worth a three-day fight?

Never Dwell On Arguments

As mentioned, you are going to have disagreements. There’s no magical solution to that. But, if you want a drama free partnership, you have to address the issue and resolve the disagreement quickly. You shouldn’t force yourself or your partner, of course. But, you have to come to a point where both of you agree to talk things over after an hour or so. Don’t let your argument simmer.

Application

It’s always great to talk things out but words will just be words when there’s no application. You have to do good on your word. If you promised your partner a day’s worth of your time then go through with it. It’s cliche but actions do speak louder than words.

You’re still going to go through a lot before you achieve a relationship that’s free of drama. But, if you focus and work on your patience and communication, you will get to that place eventually. For more tips about improving relationships, read more from our blog.

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Three Most Common Things People Judge On A First Meeting

Whenever you have the first meeting with someone, what goes through your mind? Psychologically, it has been proven that we formulate our idea of what the person may be like. We look at how they look, we listen to the way they speak, and we calculate their movements. Afterwards, we form our own idea of who the person is. Our idea may not be accurate but it’s a natural thought process that all of us go through.

What People Look At During A First Meeting With You

One expert, however, suggests something more specific. Biological anthropologist Helen Fisher says that there are three main things that people look at during a first meeting:

1. The person will observe your teeth.

According to Fisher, the teeth can tell a lot about a person’s age and health. Your teeth can also indicate a few lifestyle choices that you have made. For example, if you eat too many sweets, drink too much coffee, or smoke, your teeth will show signs of it. Of course, the person you’re meeting won’t act like a dentist an inspect your canines, but they will subtly observe how your teeth look.

2. They listen to your grammar.

We’ve always said this on a majority of our posts: always check your grammar in your dating profile. Grammatical errors are simply a no-no. Well, it proves that grammar is important in real life as well. Fisher adds that grammar is a good indication of one’s educational background.

3. People will look at how confident you are.

Confidence is one key to dating successfully. Apparently, it is also one key to making a good first impression. During your first meeting, people will look at how confident you are. This is because confidence is a good indication of how emotionally stable you are. If we exude the right kind of confidence, it tells people that we feel good about ourselves, we are secure, and that we have a positive outlook.

Now, what will you do with all of this information? Work on each one. If these are the key to making a great first impression during a first meeting, why not go to the dentist more often, brush up on your grammar, and work on your confidence? Making small improvements on each of the items might just bring you a great dating year. For more tips on self-improvement, read more posts on our blog.