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Take Things Slow | Asian Date

Follow These Tips To Take Things Slow

Are you dating someone new? Then you will be tempted to force things to progress faster. It can be an exciting time, but do you think it’s wise to not take things slow? Think about it first if you do not want to regret it later on.

Take Things Slow To Know The Person’s True Intention

You might be asking yourself why it’s necessary to take things slow. That’s valid. Why would two people who obviously like one another take things slow? For what? In today’s dating scene, the hook-up culture is very rampant whether you want to admit it or not. So, taking things slow will reveal person’s true intentions. Aside from this, taking it a day at a time will allow you to build friendship and trust. But, how can you slow things down?

1. Control Your Own Speed

Before trying to control the situation, you must first control yourself. It’s understandable for you to feel all sorts of emotions. It’s about suppressing those emotions, but still showing them in a way that won’t be too much or too overwhelming for the relationship or the person you’re with.

2. Allow Everything To Happen Naturally

Never force or manipulate the situation to make things go faster. You have to admit, when you’re excited and in love, you have this tendency. Simply allow things to run its natural course. If it has not happened yet, it means that it’s not the right time for it.

3. Take Breaks

You don’t have to concentrate on building your relationship all the time. One of the perks of taking it slow is that you can focus on your own life. Do what you do, while maintaining that connection with the person you’re interested in.

Remember that taking things slow is not about parking yourself in the “friend-zone”. That’s probably why a lot of men and women jump into relationships and force things to go fast. The romantic connection is there, but you need to foster and nurture it to grow so your relationship will have a better chance of lasting forever. For more tips about dating, read other posts on the blog.

Uncommon Valentine Gifts | Asian Date

Uncommon Valentine Gifts To Make Her Happy

It’s Valentine’s again, and it means that it’s customary for you to show the one you love how much you care for her. Please know, though, that it isn’t about material things. The gifts you give during Valentine’s Day will never be about its price. Whether you’re giving common or uncommon Valentine gifts, they will be about how happy you make the person you’re with.

Uncommon Valentine Gifts That Aren’t Pricey

This year, try something new. Try not to be too predictable so things don’t get boring. An uncommon Valentine gift that will show your thoughtfulness (without breaking your bank) is the key:

Personalized Edible

Have you ever seen those sugar cookies that you can have customized? Try giving this to your girlfriend this Valentine’s. Instead of a card, why not have your message of love written on a cookie which you can enjoy together right after dinner?

Sheets

Ladies love new sheets! It’s an uncommon Valentine’s gift, but your lady will appreciate you for it. It also conveys that you’d want your personal time with each other to be special.

Scented Candles

Perhaps there is no boyfriend or husband in the world who will give scented candles. But, just like the sheets, your lady will appreciate that you’re mindful about certain things she likes. No woman can resist a pumpkin spice candle.

An Adventure

One of the most precious gifts that you can give is your time. If you haven’t spent quality time with your significant other lately, then it’s time to do so even if it is after Valentine’s Day. It is still possible to plan a short trip or take your girl hiking. Even if you do something simple, like plan a picnic, your lady will consider it special because you are together.

Which gift do you think will your girlfriend like? If you’re in a long-distance relationship or are dating someone from another country, try to have flowers delivered to her doorstep. For more posts about dating, visit the rest of the blog.

This How To Apologize To Your Girlfriend The Right Way | Asian Date

How To Apologize To Your Girlfriend The Right Way

When you are in a fight with your girlfriend, you, most of the time, don’t know how to go about the situation. Who’s going to apologize? When is the right time to do it? You might even be thinking about how to apologize correctly. These types of questions are common.

How To Apologize Correctly To Help Your Relationship Grow

Both people in the relationship don’t know what to do after a fight. Evidently, one person should apologize. Remember, however, that this isn’t about keeping score, or about who is right and wrong. If the dust has settled, try and reach out to your girlfriend first. Follow these steps on how to apologize correctly:

1. Why is she upset?

Make sure that you understand why your girlfriend is upset or why the fight happened in the first place. You have to understand where she’s coming from. In short, you have to be empathetic, putting on her shoes as if it was your own.

2. Never Through Text

When you apologize, you have to do it in person. Never do it through text or email. If you do not do it in person, your apology is going to come off as insincere. Or, it could also seem like you’re not putting in or are not willing to put in effort to say that you’re sorry.

3. Acknowledge Her Feelings

It’s so frustrating if a person does not acknowledge how you feel, especially if it’s feelings of hurt and sadness. As the one who is apologizing, you should tell your girlfriend affirming sentences that will allow her to know that you understand what she is feeling. For example, “I know that you feel angry. I know that you were hurt about what I said.”

Saying sorry is essential right after every fight. How you do it will either make or break your relationship. If you know how to apologize, the right way, then definitely, you and your partner will learn from your experience. But if you don’t do it the right way, you might just end up arguing some more. For more tips about dating and how to improve relationships, read other posts on the blog.

Why Love Is A Choice And Not A Feeling | Asian Date

Why Love Is A Choice And Not A Feeling

When you’re dating or when you’re already in a relationship, you don’t think about the stages of love that you go through. There’s actually three: falling in love, being in love, and staying in love forever. You cannot progress without going through each stage. During the last stage, you have to realize and accept that love is a choice – you have to choose to remain in love.

Love Is A Choice And You Have To Make It Everyday

There are so many couples today that have fallen out of love because they do not fully understand the concept of the last stage. For more of these couples, it doesn’t work out because they don’t believe that love is a choice. To them, it’s simply a feeling. When that feeling disappears, it can only mean that you do not love the person anymore. Here’s why we should all see it as a choice:

1. The Spark Is Not Sustainable

We all know that the spark we feel at the beginning of the relationship is not sustainable. After maybe three months, the spark is definitely going to be gone. Of course, its presence won’t be permanently removed from your relationship because you will still have those loving moments when the spark becomes a bigger flame.

2. Love Is More Than Just A Chemical High

If we base this one on science, love is nothing more than just a chemical reaction. However, there are things we do for love that science cannot explain. One of those is choosing to love the person we’re with even though we feel angry or annoyed.

3. Individual Differences Will Arise

As mentioned, we will definitely feel annoyed in a relationship. There might even be times when we feel like we’re so angry to the point of combustion. But, we fix our differences and we move forward. In this instance, we are choosing to love rather than bare hatred.

If you choose to stay despite of the circumstances, then you are already choosing to love. There’s no perfect relationship and you shouldn’t aim for one either. Choosing to love is all about accepting the imperfections, and making an effort to make improvements wherever needed in any relationship. For more tips and reviews, read other posts on the blog.