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Modern Gentleman | Asian Date

You Can Call Yourself A Modern Gentleman If You Are Doing This

You would think that it’s easy to be a modern gentleman when approaching the ladies online or offline. Well, of course, you always have to be polite and not send your potential dates mixed messages. However, today, it requires more.

Becoming A Modern Gentleman Also Means That You Have To Be Considerate

Just because you are not sending your potential date anything offensive like tacky pickup lines or inappropriate photos, it doesn’t mean that you’re a modern gentleman. To call yourself so, you have to do the following:

1. Be Consistent

What do you have to be consistent about? Everything. From how you speak to a potential date, to how you treat potential matches, you have to be consistent.

2. Give Your Potential Dates Your Full Attention

A modern gentleman is not distracted by other things while he is with his date. He is not on his phone. In fact, he doesn’t check his phone at all. He is also not distracted by other people. His date has his full and undivided attention.

3. Ladies First

The “ladies first” concept has to be in your mind all the time. For example, if it’s time to go home after your date, don’t take the taxi first. Allow her to take the taxi before you.

4. Ghosting or Clinging Is Out Of The Picture

If you’ve lost interest in your date, it’s best to tell her upfront instead of ghosting her. On the other hand, if you have fallen quickly, don’t be too demanding of her time and attention.

Being a real modern gentleman is not hard to do. In most cases, you just have to rely on your common sense. Your date will appreciate you for it, and you will have the best chance at a next date. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.

This Is The Dating Trait You Need To Have To Be A Keeper | Asian Date

This Is The Dating Trait You Need To Have To Be A Keeper

We often wonder what it takes to be a good date. Of course, the basics are mandatory. You have to be kind, considerate, be polite, and behave accordingly. However, there’s one dating trait that will set you apart from everybody else. This trait will make your date think you are a keeper.

You’ll Be Surprised At How Simple This Dating  Trait Is

We are faced with so many everyday situations where we are required to make decisions. At the end of the day, we are mentally exhausted. We don’t want to think about anything else anymore. We’d rather simplify things at the end of the day. When it comes to dating, we are hoping for the same. Most of us wish that we only had to look for one dating trait for us to know if the person is a keeper. The good news is that is actually true, we only have to see if the person is genuinely curious.

Why Curiosity?

Of all the dating traits we have on our list, why do we have to watch out for curiosity above all? Well, think about it. When a person is naturally curious about people, this will drive him or her to ask questions to you. Of course, you’ll answer in return. So, this creates a cycle of exchange that a lot of people appreciate. Through this cycle, communication and a deeper connection are established.

When it comes to being in a relationship with a curious person, he or she will always ask, “What do you need?” or “What’s up with you today?” Compare that when you are with someone who isn’t curious at all. You’ll likely observe:

  1. That the person doesn’t care too much about knowing how you function.
  2. That the person is progressing slowly because he or she also doesn’t care about knowing him or herself.
  3. Their lack of insight will not be helping the relationship in reaching the same goal.

You never want to be with a person who doesn’t have the mentioned dating trait. By extension, you should also be more curious about the people you’re interested in. Start today, whether you are dating online or offline. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.

More Than A Friend | Asian Date

You’re More Than A Friend If You Spot These Signs

When you’re dating a person you’re really attracted to, you’re naturally going to want to be in a relationship with that person ASAP. Of course, this won’t happen right away because your date needs to gauge you out. But, the worst that can happen is when your date doesn’t like you romantically. How can you tell if he or she likes you as more than a friend?

More Than A Friend And A Suitable Romantic Partner

We have all gone through situations in our dating lives when we get mixed signals from people. Is your date interested in your romantically? Or, does your date only see you as a friend? In any case, all of us have to practice awareness:

Frequent Calls

Whether you are dating online or offline, the first sign that you should watch out for is how frequently you talk to each other. When your calls or chats become more frequent, it’s a good sign. Oftentimes, your potential date is the last person you want to talk to right before you go to bed. Your potential date should be feeling the same way.

Frequent Mentions

During conversations, do you find yourself mentioning your date’s name? Does he or she frequently come up when you are talking with your friends? Then it’s a sign that you are thinking about your date every now and then. If your date does the same thing, then everything is good.

Unplanned Pet Names

Unconsciously, if you have pet names for each other, it’s a good sign. You could be reaching a point where you are more flirtatious. This is one step closer to your feelings blossoming into a full-blown romance.

You’ll know that you are more than a friend if you spot all of these signs. Of course, it goes without saying that you need to meet a couple of times first. If you’re sure, then you have to have “the talk”. Make sure that the timing is right for you to talk about making your relationship official. For more tips on dating, read other posts on the blog.

 

These Are The Differences Between Settling And Being Realistic | Asian Date

These Are The Differences Between Settling And Being Realistic

When it comes to dating and relationships, we have to know the difference between being realistic and settling. There’s a thin line between both and it’s easy to mistake one term over the other. You could think that you’re simply being realistic when all the while, you’ve been dating people who are lesser than you deserve.

Being Realistic While Dating Can Be Achieved With An Active Sense Of Awareness

It’s important to know the difference between being realistic and settling because you don’t want to waste your time with people that aren’t right for you. If you settle, it’s likely that the relationship will not work out because you aren’t in it for the correct reasons. For example, you could be dating a random person because you don’t want to feel lonely anymore. No, this is settling. Being realistic is something totally different:

1. Acceptance

You and your date accept each other for the real people that you are. You know that you’re settling when you see all of your potential partner’s short-comings, but you tell yourself that he or she will just change as you go through life together.

2. Respect

Respect is an important element in a relationship. If you don’t respect your partner or if your partner doesn’t respect you, then there’s no point in being together. Respect means that your partner considers how you feel, and he or she is always ready to lift you up.

3. Compromise

There are a lot of people who mistake settling for compromising. They have a totally different meaning. When you settle, your happiness is at stake. However, if you compromise in your relationship, the goal behind it is to maintain a sense of balance that can benefit both parties.

4. Good Times

Experts say that a couple’s relationship is fine if they have five positive interactions for every one negative interaction. If your ratio is totally off, like if you have negative interactions most of the time, then you are definitely settling.

If you identify all of these elements in your relationship or while you are dating, then you’re being realistic. Don’t worry because you are grounded. And, this can lead your relationship to the next level because the next steps you’ll take will still be grounded in reality. For more relationship tips, read other posts on the blog.