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Seven Surprising Dating Tips That Really Work

How many times have you heard the same dating tips repeated over and over again on the internet? Countless we bet. Some could be diamonds in the pile of charcoals, but others are merely recycled and, in fact, lack what we all need so we can handle our love lives.

So today we will be focusing on the opposite. We’re going to talk about surprising dating advice that actually work. We bet that you’ll tell yourself, “I haven’t thought of it that way”. Without further ado, let’s go to the list.

All Of The Dating Tips You’ll Ever Need

Love the Single Life

Yeah. We know that this doesn’t sound right but hear us out. As someone who’s still looking for a partner, you should have at least tried to enjoy the life that you have as a single person. If you don’t, you can come off as desperate and too needy or clingy when it’s time for you to date. In the meantime, while Ms. Right still hasn’t arrived yet, travel, experience new things and just enjoy life.

Stop Comparing

While you’re having a blast with your single life, you may feel the urge to compare yourself with people who have already found a significant other. Stop it. You have to remember that everything has its perfect timing. The perfect time could have come with the couples that you’re seeing. Yours will come too if you’re patient enough to wait for it.

Don’t be Yourself

This may also sound contra-intuitive, but bare with. If being yourself hasn’t landed you a real date in over a year, it’s time to focus your efforts on self-improvement. The real you could just be hiding behind a scared facade you’ve created over the years. Be honest and assess yourself in a way that will be helpful to your development.

Take a Break

This is kind of similar to embracing your single life. Sometimes, even if we don’t feel like dating, we do it anyway for the sake of not wasting time. This notion is totally false. When you don’t feel like it, just take a break. You are not a dating robot. You’re allowed to focus on other things in your life other than dating.

Don’t be Afraid to Let Go

When we’re smitten, we usually don’t really see things objectively. This is especially true when the person we’re with is not good for us at all, but we choose to look the other way for fear of losing a “good thing“. The fact is, we shouldn’t be afraid of letting go of people who are unhealthy for us.

Set Your Standards

Have you ever thought about what will be acceptable behavior to you and what you consider to be crossing the line? If you haven’t and you are active in the dating scene, make sure that you allow yourself enough time to think about these things. Early on, you have to set your standard so you know when you have a keeper.

Feedback

Feedback on what? Feedback on you, of course. Usually, we think that something is going great when all of a sudden the other person drops you like a hot potato. Instead of just turning your back and walking the other way, why not get feedback on what you did wrong. It could get awkward but think about it as a learning experience and an opportunity to better yourself.

Why You Should Believe In This

See? If you think logically, all of these suggestions will sound right to you. And even if some of them don’t, you’ll have to trust us and believe in them anyway, because we are certain you don’t agree with some of them only because you don’t see things straight caught up in the moment. Just try it out anyway, and you’ll see that it all pays off really quickly.

For more dating tips like these, visit the rest of our blog.

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Dating Mistakes You Didn’t Realize You’re Making

We’ve all made our share of dating mistakes. And since all relationships work in the same basic ways; to spare you the pain and suffering, we’ll share some get-real advice for relationship beginnings. Follow these rules, and you should be able to avoid some treacherous romantic pitfalls.

After Reading This You Won’t Make This Dating Mistakes Ever Again

Rule #1: Don’t date crabby people. Hateful, spiteful, petty, rude, irritable, crabby, ill-tempered, hot-tempered, or just plain mean — if you date someone who fits that description, you are setting yourself up for a serious blow to your self-esteem. Almost all relationships of this kind end; it’s a lucky person who finds even one relationship that lasts forever. If you date a Crabby Person, you can be sure that this relationship will hurt you more than them. Even if you’re the one to leave, even if both of you are feeling disappointed, hurt, heartbroken, or disgusted by the relationship, you will also be hearing about all your flaws and shortcomings. When you get involved with someone who acts like a jerk under normal circumstances, just imagine how they will be when the relationship ends.

Rule #2: Don’t date anyone hoping they will change. People can change, and sometimes they do, but the beginning of a relationship is not the time to make big compromises. Getting off drugs, learning anger management, or being honest is the other person’s problem to fix — not yours. Always assume that anything you dislike about a person is an immutable quality. You might be tempted to think that Jane won’t treat you the way he treats Joe, because you are nothing close to the loser that Joe is. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that being wonderful will make someone change. A person who behaves towards others in a way you don’t like will eventually behave toward you in the exact same way. If you’re involved with someone who lies to other people, they will lie to you, too.

Rule #3: Don’t date anyone who’s not hot. To you, of course. It’s tempting to get into relationships with people you are friends with — you like each other, you have common interests, you get along, you enjoy being together, it’s comfortable — and sometimes it can be great. Sometimes it’s a big mess. The difference? Chemistry. Friendly love is not a substitute for romantic love. Dating someone just because they’re nice, you’re lonely, or you hope it will develop into passion is unfair to the other person. Your feelings are bound to show themselves eventually, and then this person you genuinely care about will feel foolish and used.

Rule #4: Don’t commit to anyone who can’t meet your needs. No single person will ever meet all of your needs; however, the two of you should have a significant degree of natural compatibility. When your needs are complementary, it’s much easier to keep a relationship fun and healthy. Don’t be afraid to end a relationship if you are dissatisfied and can’t find a way to get out of it what you need!

You know what they say: love is a battlefield. Think of these rules and dating mistakes as your armor. They can’t prevent every injury, but they can minimize the damage you receive. If you agree, but need more advice, check the rest of our blog.

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Everything You Need To Know About The Online Dating Site You’re Using

Online dating sites have become very popular in the last few years. And some of the most popular ones are free. But, there are so many out there and if you want to find the best partner you should really cautiously check each online dating site you’re planning on using before joining

What To Think About When Choosing An Online Dating Site

Communication: are they offering email and messenger for easy communication with other members? It is necessary to communicate well in order to form a meaningful relationship.

Keeping it clean: are there rules and restrictions regarding adult and X-rated material? Try to find a site that takes care of this because free use of these types of elements often attracts a bad crowd and you do not want to get caught up in this.

Also, you should be aware of the factors that will give you the possibility to find the best match for you. These are the segments that should be included in your profile.

Age: Be honest about your age. It s not good lying about your age because you will get the wrong responses and you can very likely be caught in an embarrassing situation in the future.

Profession: It is good to put in your profession, because many people like to at least make friends with those who are in the same line of work.

Hobbies and interests: For the same reason it is wise to put your choice of hobbies on your profile, this will also help with matchmaking.

Physical appearance: It is nice to put in a little something about your physical attributes. This does not have to be very detailed but at least mention your height. This is because you will find that many people like to know some physical facts before they make their decision of whether to start a relationship with someone.

Country of origin: It is always nice to write something about your original country if you are new to the USA. This gives you a chance to find a match from your original country and enjoy sharing special customs from the old country.

Photo: Always upload a photo of yourself so that people can see the real you. You will get more responses when you do this as people like to envision the people they are talking to. The Internet can be an impersonal place and when you put your photo with your profile it makes you more personal and approachable.

If you remember these points, you’ll be able to go through online dating more smoothly. Try to think about your profile as your advertisement (without lying!) and be sure that the better your present yourself the better your outcome will be. But, at the end, the most important thing is to keep your mind open and enjoy yourself. Be honest and polite, and even if you don’t find love right away, you can always find friends and meet a bunch of interesting people.

For more advice about dating and love, feel free to check the rest of our blog.

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How to Recognize Five Stages Of a Break Up

Breaking up is never easy. You can have a lot of emotions running through your head, and you just don’t know what to expect or how to act. You want to be angry with them, but on the other hand you are too sad to be angry. There are stages that you will go through which will be very hard. But, everybody goes through these stages of a break up, as they are the normal process of getting over it and moving on.

Stages Of A Break Up Everybody Goes Through

Separation from others. It is important to give yourself some time alone so you can cope with the break up. Stay at home and pop in a movie to watch by yourself, or even write in a journal to express your feelings. It is important that you spend sometime alone so that you can heal properly. Your heart may have been broken, and you need the time to get over it.

Removal of them out of your life. Get rid of anything that may remind you of them. Return all of their possessions, and throw away any love letters you may have from them. If you used to go to a place frequently with them, find a new location to start fresh. The more things you have around you that remind you of them, the longer it is going to take to get over them.

Starting out fresh. Think of it as one door has maybe closed for you, but there is going to be another open door shortly. Do not think of the break up in a negative way, yet another way of starting out fresh. Get a new hairstyle or go shopping for new clothing, any way to have a fresh start.

Humor and hobbies are important. It is important to laugh through the break up process. You can do this by watching a funny movie, or even laughing with some friends and family members. Humor will remind you of the funny times in life and that the break up might not be so bad after all. If you find yourself struggling to find things to keep you occupied, learn a new hobby to keep your mind off of things.

Support is important in the break up process. You need to have a support group, or a small group of friends and family members that are willing to listen to your feelings. Surround yourself with the people who love and care for you, because they will help you be able to get over the break up and move on with your life.

It is important that you follow these stages of a break up so that you can heal properly from the relationship. It is going to take some time to get over it and move on, but it will happen. Take the time to heal and mend your broken heart, but remember that you have to move on with your life. There will be other opportunities available to you in the near future, and you need to keep this in mind to get over the relationship emotionally.

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