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Why We Seek Relationship Closure After Breaking Up

The breakups we go through aren’t always smooth and pleasant. What’s more is that when the relationship ends, we have this uneasy feeling. You’re probably familiar with this. Most of us who have gone through a nasty break up then seek relationship closure.

The Reason Behind Our Desire For Relationship Closure

Closure is simply the act or process of closing something. It’s like reading the last lines of the last chapter of a book. Relationship closure can be defined in a similar way. We want to deal with the feelings we have towards a relationship that did not work out. We seek answers to questions like:

  • What did I do wrong?
  • What factor contributed to the end of the relationship?

When you analyze it deeply, the reason why we need the closure is because we want to make better decisions in the future. There might be aspects in us that we need to improve before that new love comes. We don’t want to make the same mistake over and over again. So, the desire for closure is something that’s normal.

Ways To Get The Relationship Closure We Want

There are different ways for us to achieve closure. The most obvious one would be to ask our former partner to resolve things together. This is not easy to do but here are some tips you can use:

  1. Make sure that you and your ex are both at a point where you can calmly talk about things.
  2. Time the talk perfectly.
  3. Be ready for what your ex is going to say.

The second way to achieve closure is through yourself. The first option won’t always be doable for most of us. If this is the case, you have to reach deep within you to assess your failed relationship in an objective way, from a bird’s eye point of view. Here are some tips to help you achieve this by yourself:

  1. Forget about what you did wrong in your past relationship. Focus on improving weaknesses you have.
  2. Change your perspective about the break up. Instead of looking at it with questioning eyes, look at it as a lesson that you had to learn the hard way.

Whichever route you take, the closure you’ll receive will help you reshape and rethink your future in a way that’s healthier. For more relationship advice, check out other blog posts we have here.

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Ever Heard About The August Blues? Here’s What You Can Do About it

You are probably familiar with Sunday night blues, or Blue Monday, or even the post-holiday blues most of us experience after Christmas and the New Year. But did you know that there is a name for feeling bad as the summertime draws to an end? The August Blues really are a thing.

What Are The August Blues?

With most of us spending a good three-quarter of the year eagerly waiting for the summer to arrive, it’s no wonder having to wave goodbye to it feels so damn depressing. The summer leave ends, the clothes get heavier, the day gets shorter, our summer fling is over (though not always), and our beautiful tan is fading like the sound of ‘Despacito’ in our ears.

Funnily enough, the August blues are also felt by those who actually hate summer, with its sweaty days, the scorching sun, the endless insect bites, what feels like a forced carelessness, not to mention the smelly commuters. Having spent over two months putting up with the aforementioned, they just want to shout “Roll on autumn”.

How To Get Over The August Blues

Whether you’ve had the most exciting summer ever, or just a very average one, the fact of the matter is that summer, like all seasons, has to come to an end. The first thing to stop worrying about is not making the most of it. Having regrets is the least effective thing one can do. Even if you didn’t experience the things you had set out to experience, like finding a new partner or losing those extra pounds, it’s not the end of the world. Expecting too much is a sure-fire way to disappointment.

Secondly, you need to appreciate the good things that are waiting ahead. Think walking on fallen leaves, think Halloween, think clothes you actually feel comfortable wearing, Christmas trees and carols, pumpkin soup, Netflix (and –why not- chill), think ski and then think après-ski drinks with friends, think cuddling and nights by the fire. Aren’t you convinced yet?

A third thing to help you deal with the August blues is to draw on the memories of those Sunday nights and then going back to school on Monday. Surely, the weekends were a time to relax and play, but then the weekdays were not as bad as we imagined, right? We did have to go to school and endure lessons, but we also met our friends, got to hang out with our school crush and actually became better people for it. Which might explain why we kind of miss these days now. And it’s also proof that sometimes fear itself is worse than the reality ahead.

Like the start of the school year or a Monday morning, autumn will not be as bad as you think. In fact, it may be something to look forward to – a season full of promises for new beginnings and exciting experiences.

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You Can Find More Than Love On Dating Sites

When it comes to romance sites, the primary purpose of our presence there is to find an online date. It’s self-explanatory because that’s what dating sites are all about. Despite it’s main purpose, you can actually find more than just love on dating sites today.

What Else Can You Find Other Than Love On Dating Sites?

There are, literally, more and more people signing up to online dating sites or dating apps on the daily. Think about the possibilities of being on a platform that’s filled with people. You’ll get to know new personalities and interesting individuals that you never would have met offline.

Of course, it’s a fact that online dating could either be a hit or a miss for you. So, these interesting people you have (or will) come to know won’t necessarily find you attractive. However, that doesn’t have to be the end of everything. What we’re saying is that it’s a good idea to make online friendships, and not just find love on dating sites too.

Benefits of Online Friendships

There are just people out there who we instantly click with. Even though the spark isn’t present, we can still hit it off with people we have the same interests, hobbies and quirks as us. If you do pursue a friendly connection with a person online, you:

  • Will have someone to talk to when your date’s not online.
  • Will have a new friend when your old friends are busy.
  • Develop a friendship with someone in a new way.
  • Have the chance to be yourself online.

Most likely, this will be a new experience for you. When we try to find love on dating sites, we have this tendency to put our best foot forward. Sometimes, we even put our foot too forward – we tell small lies in order to seem successful or attractive. But, since we’re just talking to a friend, we don’t really need to pretend anymore. How refreshing can this experience be, right? Who knows, in time, it could bloom into something totally special.

For more dating tips and online dating hacks, read more of our posts on our blog.

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Questions That Will Tell You If You’re Experiencing Love At First Sight

We’ve all gone through a phase, or maybe several phases, where we think we’re in love with someone we just met. Everyone knows this as the “love at first sight” phenomenon. It makes you feel all the right things at the moment of meeting – butterflies in your stomach, your heart skipping a beat, and the rest of the shebang. While love at first sight can feel like cupid’s arrow has buried deep into your ventricular walls, you still need to snap back and ask yourself if you truly are in love or just in love in the moment?

Questions That Assess Whether You Truly Are In Love At First Sight?

Of course, we believe that anything can happen with love so the chance of your love at first sight turning into something serious is not discounted. What we are saying is that you need to set your fluttering emotions aside and ask yourself the following questions:

1. Is It Just Physical Attraction?

Don’t get us wrong. Physical attraction is important in any relationship but physique shouldn’t be the only aspect in a person you like. Physical attraction fades in and out of a relationship, so if this is the only aspect of the person you like, the relationship might not stand the test of time.

2. He or She Is Flawed. Is This OK With Me?

Obviously, the person you have an eye for will have their own flaws. As soon as you simmer down from your love at first sight feeling, you’re going to see that soon enough. You have to ask yourself if this is ok with you, if not, you have to come to terms that you are not in love at all.

3. Will You Have The Same Values?

So you can get along with the person you’re interested in, you have to have the same set of values in life. You can find this out by getting to know the person. What if you find out that you don’t? Are you still willing to work on the relationship, or potential relationship?

4. Is The Feeling Mutual?

You can’t really form a relationship if the other party is not feeling the same as you. Because you can’t really flat out ask the person you like, “are you interested in me too?” you have to find out slowly. There’s chance that the answer is no, of course, so you have to be willing to take the risk if you’re truly in love.

These questions should make you more focused in assessing whether your love at first sight can bloom into a real relationship or if it’s just going to fade away in a couple of days. Share this post if you found it helpful and don’t forget to read more of our posts on our blog.