Throughout your dating life, can you remember dating someone who you consider highly-confident? You’ll definitely know because they have a certain charm to them that’s so attractive and alluring. Do you want to know the secret of these highly-confident people?
Highly-Confident People Date Differently Because They Are Proactive
When it comes to job interviews, highly-confident people get all the attention because they know how to attract it. They don’t demand it, but it’s natural for them to catch other people’s attention. It’s the same when they are dating. They naturally catch their date’s attention because they have the following traits:
1. They Pay Attention
Highly-confident people pay attention. It’s not only that they pay close attention to their date, meaning that they are attentive to the person they’re with, they also pay attention to his or her reaction to everything. This includes his or her body language, manner of responses, and etc.
2. Working On Assertiveness
When you are assertive, you don’t need to manipulate the situation because things almost always go your way. Being assertive means that you are bold enough to voice out your own opinions. It also means that you move or act independently, without others telling you what to do.
3. Shrugging Off Failure
You will encounter so many disappointments when you are dating, whether online or offline. One difference between you and highly-confident people is that they don’t mind failure. They welcome it and treat it as a learning experience.
What’s great about this is that you can also adopt these traits. Even if you don’t consider yourself to be a highly-confident person, you can become one with consistent practice and a conscious awareness that you have to make efforts to improve yourself. For more tips about improving yourself, as well as your dating life, read other posts on the blog.