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New Year’s Resolutions That Can End Your Relationship

Who would have ever thought that there could be New Year’s Resolutions that can be bad for your relationship? Generally, resolutions are written so we have positive goals we can reach for as the new year passes. There are even resolutions that are specific to couples. So, what are the types of resolutions that may potentially end our current relationships? This AsianDate post finds out.

Why Some New Year’s Resolutions Can Cause Friction In A Relationship

First of all, making resolutions is a good step towards knowing where you are in life now and aiming for a better one in the near future. But sometimes, it is the execution of these resolutions that can cause friction with your significant. The following are example scenarios that best illustrate this:

Resolution #1: Losing Weight / Exercising

You tell your partner that you would like to lose some weight this year. Both of you agree and then figure out a program that both of you can do. You follow the program, and then you lose weight. Your partner, however, is losing less weight than you. This is one possible scenario where your partner can feel resentment towards you.

Resolution #2: Try New Things

Trying new things doesn’t sound bad. But, when you explore doing new things on your own, your partner might feel neglected, and maybe insecure, especially when he or she sees that you’re having a blast enjoying all sorts of new hobbies and activities without him or her.

Resolution #3: Eat Healthier

Eating healthy is a proactive step to a higher state of well-being. Let’s say that you do make this change this year. Your partner is happy with it at first but then realized that you’re “no fun” anymore because you cannot eat pizzas or drink beers with him or her.

The resolutions on this AsianDate post are the most common ones that people make. We should all look at these resolutions as changes that can either have a good or bad effect on our relationship, especially when communication is not practiced.

If any of these example scenarios happen, it’s possible that you and your partner may need to work on strengthening your connection with each other first.

Practicing your resolutions will bring about a change in your relationship. It is up to you and your significant other to adapt to the changes to make your relationship better.

We have more relationship advice on our blog so be sure to check out other posts. You can also visit AsianDate.com if you’re single and would like to try online dating for the first time this year.

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The Insiders Teach You About Dating Asians

Have you ever heard of the term K-pop? K is simply short for Korean, while pop, in this expression, refers to the music genre. Basically, K-pop is the shortened version of Korean popular music. It’s so popular that you don’t have to explain what the expression means to an Asian because K-pop is a booming industry even outside of Korea. But, what does this have to do with dating Asians?

How Studying K-pop Stars Can Help With Dating Asians

We’ll get to that in a little bit. First, you’ve probably already figured out that K-pop stars are the boy bands and girl bands of the Asian world. They’re like the Backstreet Boys or One Direction, only “upgraded”. We use the term “upgraded” because groups who attempt to break into the industry have to undergo rigorous training for one whole year before they are debuted to the public.

Now, we can talk about how K-pop stars can help you with dating Asians. A closer look at why Asians go crazy over the dancing, singing, and acting idols can give you some tips on how you can attract Asian women. Read the following tips that we can all learn from observing K-pop stars:

1. K-pop stars take care of themselves.

Remember that one year of training that K-pop stars have to go through? Well, it involves dozens of dancing rehearsals. This serves as a K-pop star’s form of exercise. You should also have some exercise yourself. It doesn’t have to be dancing. It can be any exercise that fits your lifestyle. Asian women are attracted to men who have a fit physique, so you better start working out now.

2. K-pop stars pay attention to style.

Are we saying that you have to dress up like a K-pop star? Not at all, because sticking to your personal style – a style that you’re comfortable with – is the best way to go. Just make sure that, whatever personal style you have, you’re updated with the latest trends, and you know what looks good on your body. It could also be time for a makeover, don’t you think?

3. They’re confident performers.

OK, so you’re not going to perform in front of your Asian date. But, you can show your confidence in other ways. The way you act, the way you speak and, generally, how you conduct yourself during dates will help your Asian date see how confident you really are.

4. Humility

If you’re not into K-pop culture, you’ve probably haven’t seen how K-pop stars address their fans. They’re very humble in doing so. While your date may not be a crazy fan waiting for your signature, you have to remember to be humble when on dates. Be humble when you treat waiters or servers. Be humble when you talk about your achievements and so on.

Do all of four of these tips, and you’re basically similar to a K-pop idol. With enough practice, you’re going to have Asian girls lining up to meet and date you! Just don’t forget to show off your personal style which is very important in the K-pop industry. For more dating tips, check out the other posts on our blog.

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Unattractive Traits You Are Unconscious Of

When you’re online dating on Asian Date or any dating website, you always want to put your best foot forward because you want to make a good first impression. It’s the same when you meet a person offline or in real life for the first time, you want to minimize your unattractive traits.

Unattractive Traits You Should Become Aware Of

However, we tend to have characteristics that make us unattractive. It’s natural to have these unattractive traits, of course, because no one is perfect. But, what you don’t want is for you to show these qualities off without being aware of them. Check this list of traits that may be showing off unconsciously when you’re online dating.

Being Self-Absorbed

A good rule to remember when you’re chatting with someone online is to make way for the other person to tell their story. When you’re self-absorbed, you tend to focus more on yourself. The tendency is for you to talk more about yourself, not allowing the other person to get a word in. That’s counterproductive, don’t you think? How can you get to know the other person when all you’re talking about is your life?

Prioritizing Appearances

Let’s admit that the initial trigger for someone to chat with another person when they are online dating is good looks. That’s how chats or online dating messages are initiated, but, in the long run, if you focus too much only on the outer appearance, you won’t make that much of a connection. This trait is unattractive because it makes people think that you’re superficial.

You’re Bossy

This trait can be a bit difficult to identify, but here’s a good way of telling. Answer this question: who has the last say about whatever? Is it you or your online date? For example, when you want to chat online again, who decides when the next meeting’s going to be? If you find yourself making most of the decisions, you could be showing off an unattractive trait without even knowing it. There shouldn’t be any pressure when you are online dating especially when you’re at a stage where you’re only getting to know each other and no commitments have been agreed upon. Take it easy!

Dishonesty

This is probably the most unattractive trait that many online daters have identified. Let’s say you’re on Asian Date and you want to impress all the Asian women that come across your profile. So, you decide to make something up – a career, status, or a whole lifestyle. Remember that your white lies will catch up to you eventually. It’s pretty hard to sustain these kinds of white lies when you’ve been talking to someone online for a while. Think long and hard about whether you have these traits or not or how much you show them. Be honest with yourself and start with the process of making yourself better and more self-aware.

Bonus Tip: Even though this girl above maybe looks pretty and attractive, her smell wouldn’t be so appealing after smoking that cigar. So loose that nasty habit if you have it, your whole body will thank you, and you will most probably have more success with ladies.

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What You Should Never Say to a Woman While Dating Online

Frankly, it’s hard to go wrong when you are dating online. Of course not every conversation will turn into a lifelong romance, but if you’re being yourself and not being too high-strung, you’ll generally get along with the women who have compatible personalities and interests to yours. There are, however, a few things you should never say to any woman you’re pursuing online. We’ve compiled them for you, in hopes that you won’t miss any opportunities because you turned someone off by saying the wrong thing.

When You Are Dating Online You Should Never Say This

1. “I’m still getting over my ex.”

A lot of people who try online dating are recently out of serious relationships, but there’s no need to advertise it. If you’re still at a point where you still need to bring up your ex in every conversation – even those with prospective romantic partners – then maybe you need to take a little more time off from the dating world.

2. “Why aren’t you replying to me?”

There could be many answers to this question. Maybe she doesn’t want to talk with you, and that’s fine. Just as likely, though, is the possibility that she hasn’t had a chance to write back to you yet. But by pestering, you come off as desperate and demanding. Pushing for a response never works.

3. “Hi.”

We’re not saying that you should skip greetings! Rather, we’re advocating for an upgrade on the one word “hi”s and “hey”s of the world, or at least an addition. Make your opening line a full one or two sentences, maybe something like this: “Hey! I couldn’t stop thinking about you yesterday. What’s up? :)” Friendliness and enthusiasm are key.

4. “Your really pretty.”

Not everyone can be a grammar expert or a Scripps National Spelling Bee champion. That said, it’s worth your time to consult a spellchecker. Obvious errors in your messages convey a lack of care in communication. She’ll wonder why she’s not worth the two minutes that it takes to re-read the otherwise-thoughtful message you wrote to her.

5. “Do you wanna sleep with me?”

Come on, man. You’re better than that.

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