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Dos And Don’ts Of Searching For Love Online

Thanks to popular demand, we’re back with more dos and don’ts of online dating. Don’t forget to check out our other dos and don’t posts, but before that find out what you should and shouldn’t do when you are searching for love online.

Searching For Love Online Will Be Easier When You Learn This

DO: Move things forward

Emailing and messages are a great way to start, but you can only get to know someone so well from written exchanges. At a certain point, it’s times to make things verbal and, eventually, visual. When the time is right, AsianDate’s Call Me and CamShare features are a great way to advance your correspondence.

DON’T: Move too quickly

Phone calls and CamShare are awesome, but not on the first exchange. Don’t set up a phone call with a woman you’ve barely talked to—it will be awkward for both of you.

One of the girls on AsianDate says: “Letters and emails might seem a little impersonal, but it’s actually really charming when a guy puts time into writing a thoughtful note. That definitely is something that would make me want to get to know someone better.”

DO: Say what you like in a woman

It’s totally cool to tell a woman the traits that you want in a partner. If you’re looking for someone who loves nature and traveling and wants a long-term relationship, then there’s no point in wasting your time talking to the queen of the Netflix marathon who just wants to be friends.

DON’T: Talk about your ex

It can be easy to get caught up in comparisons, but trust us: talking about your ex-lady is always a bad move. Even if you’re telling your new gal how much better she is, she’s probably not buying it—she’s wondering why you’re still thinking of your ex at all.

One of the girls on AsianDate says: “I once had a man tell me directly that he wasn’t looking for anything serious. He sounded kind of apologetic about it, but it was great. I wasn’t looking for anything serious, either, so we immediately knew we were on the same page.”

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Your Online Date Likes You If She Does This

Online dating affords you many communication options and opportunities, so it’s never hard to get in touch with someone. But similar to in-person dating, your online date can be full of ambiguity, mixed signals and wondering what the other person is thinking. To help you out, we’ve put together a list of three tell-tale signs the woman you’re communicating with online is into you.

Online Date Will Show You These Signs If She Likes You

She replies quickly to all your messages

This isn’t to say that if someone doesn’t reply quickly to your messages, she’s not into you. Not everyone has a schedule where instantaneous responses are possible. But if she is constantly getting back to you shortly after you contacted her, then that’s her way of showing you that she cares and is invested enough to put in the effort.

Your small talk is interesting

No matter how exciting your life is, there are going to be days where not much happened. How does she respond when you talk about a boring day at the office? If she’s interested in the small, minor details of your life, it shows that she wants to learn as much about you as possible and that she cares about what you have to say.

She’s open with you

Many people are very closed off about their personal life while talking with others online, and with good reason. Not everyone is worth opening up to, and those private details can only be shared with someone important. So, if you find that a woman is starting to let you into some of the more intimate aspects of her life, it’s a sign that you’ve earned her trust.

Reading between the lines is important. But above all else, just listen to what she’s saying. If she likes you, she’ll find a way to make it quite clear.

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How to Make Your Online Dating Profile Unforgettable

One of the great advantages of online dating is the ability to search through dozens of potential matches to find the type of partner you’re looking for. Of course, the flip side of this means that you have do something a little special with your online dating profile if you want to stand out. Here are some great tips to make your profile catch the eye of everyone who comes across it.

How To Catch The Attention With Your Online Dating Profile

1. Leave some mystery

You don’t have to be mysterious, per se, but the idea here is that you shouldn’t give too much away. It’s not that women don’t want to hear all the details of your awesome trip to Bali last winter, it’s just that they don’t want to hear about it yet. Tell them that you’re a traveler and you’ve been on some pretty crazy adventures, and ladies that are into that will be intrigued.

2. Pick the right photos

We’ll cut to the chase: Choose profile pictures that show you with family members, mixed-gender groups of friends, or pets. You’ll come across as social, caring and well-liked—because you are!

3. Show off your best traits

Anyone can say that they’re funny, thoughtful or romantic. But, as your old high school writing teacher used to say, “Show, don’t tell.” Include some light-hearted humor, share a deep thought or two (nothing too heavy), or speak fondly about the traits you desire in a woman.

4. Make these final tweaks

You’re gonna have to trust us a bit on these last few tips. Try using the word “whom,” refer to females as “women” instead of “girls,” mention your career, and be clear about what type of relationship you’re looking for. These are all research-backed characteristics of a profile that performs well.

Of course, the basic tenets of a good profile remain the same: Be friendly, approachable and honest. But to truly stand out, give the tricks above a shot.

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The Reality Of Dating Today: Truths You Need To Face

As much as some of us would like to boil it down to a science, love is simply unpredictable. Even if you have a “type,” you never really know which mysterious woman across the bar is going to catch your eye. And even if you’re in a romantic slump, you can never rule out meeting the woman of your dreams on any given night. But, all of that is more likely to happen if you are aware of the reality of dating nowadays.

What Science Says About Reality Of Dating These Days

Fortunately, we have online dating to give us at least some insight into the ways of love and attraction. Because of its technological element, online dating lends itself to research much better than in-person dating. Here are three studies that were done on online dating, and what we can take away from them.

Pew Research Center: Many online daters never meet in person.

Pew Research, one of the most reliable sources for social surveys, found that almost exactly one-third of online daters have never met a single match in real life. It seems as if, for many, online dating has become a romantic experience in and of itself. While many approach it with the objective of eventually meeting someone in person, others have found the conversation and companionship they were looking for without leaving the online experience.

ConvergEx Group: Online dating saves you money.

$6400, to be exact. ConvergEx took a financial approach to their study, calculating that the amount of money saved on dates over periods of months is typically in the thousands. The study was applied to couples who met online and eventually became married, but the principle holds true for those who never even meet in person. If you’re meeting online instead of in a restaurant, that’s a lot of extra cash in your pocket.

AnswerLab: Men don’t spend enough time reading profiles.

This study from AnswerLab used far more than anecdotal evidence to support its claims. With advanced eye-tracking technology for measurement, the study gauged, among other things, how much time men and women spent looking at the profiles of potential matches. Surprise, surprise: Men spent 50 percent less time reading profiles than women did. This isn’t a shocker; it’s no secret men trust their immediate instincts when it comes to attraction. But maybe they could learn something from the ladies: It never hurts to know a little more about a romantic interest.

What is just as interesting as these individual studies is the fact that they were even performed at all. In the last decade, online dating has become a mainstream phenomenon that’s shaped the love lives of millions all over the world. When something’s so influential that it merits research by financial firms and use of eye-tracking devices, you know it’s affecting culture in a big way, and that’s the undeniable reality of dating also.So, if you haven’t already started, what are you waiting for?

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