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One Thing That Ruins Your Chances With AsianDate Women

If you’ve been on AsianDate for a while, you may have already met Asian women who are gorgeous and exciting. You’ll meet more for sure. The surprising fact is, a lot of these women are easy to approach and talk to. But did you know that there’s one thing that you can do to ruin your chances with AsianDate women?

Do Not Do This One Thing When You’re Talking To AsianDate Women

It won’t matter if you went to an ivy league school, or if you’re a CEO of a company, or you have five cars. All of these credentials look good on your dating profile but make sure you avoid doing this one thing: expect an Asian lady to be physically intimate too soon.

Any woman wouldn’t want to meet someone online who’s only after one thing – physical intimacy. You should understand that most women on AsianDate are online dating to look for serious relationships.

Although there’s still some taboos towards couples being physically intimate in Asian culture, a lot of Asian women are no strangers to bedroom adventures. They just don’t talk about it.

When Is The Right Time For Physical Intimacy?

How soon is too soon? Well, that’s the tricky part because there are AsianDate women who are still conservative in their thinking. They may be open to being physically intimate and experimenting, but the right time differs from one Asian woman to another. Here are some tips for physical intimacy:

  1. Don’t flat out ask for it because it’ll make an Asian woman feel uncomfortable.
  2. Don’t even think about physical intimacy. It’ll just happen naturally.
  3. Never drop hints, talk inappropriately or tell jokes that are too immature.
  4. If the only thing you’re after is physical intimacy, you may consider online dating somewhere else.
  5. Get to know the Asian woman first, and move towards building a relationship.
  6. Do not embarrass the Asian woman you’re talking to by asking questions regarding past physical relationships.

Understand that Asian women want physical intimacy with the person they truly love and who loves them back. Draw the line between being playful or flirty and being inappropriate.

Physical intimacy will come at the right time. All you have to do is allow things to happen naturally. For more helpful dating tips, don’t forget to check out the rest of posts on our blog.

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How to Flirt: Making an Emotional Connection

Whenever you flirt or chat with a date (either online or in person), it’s always important not to “interview” your match by asking too many consecutive questions. Instead, you should try to lead the conversation in a direction that will make the emotional connection between the two of you.

The Best Technique For Better Emotional Connection

There’s a simple technique for better connecting with a prospective partner on an emotional level: respond to the emotional content of what they say, rather than the factual content.

For example, if your match says: “I went skydiving once.”

An example of a fact-based response would be: “Cool. My friend is a professional skydiver.”

An example of an emotion-based response would be: “That’s great. I like when people are adventurous enough to step outside their everyday comfort zone. How did you feel right after you jumped?”

When your match tells you something about herself, she communicates both factual content (i.e. that she went skydiving) and emotional content (i.e. she is adventurous and loves fun). If you respond with a fact about yourself (especially one that “one-ups” her story), it won’t make her feel like you are connecting. If you acknowledge that she is trying to share an emotion and lead the conversation in that direction, the two of you will build a much deeper connection.

People can often get this wrong. When we speak to each other, competition is natural. It connects people to each other and establishes power relationships. But when couples do it to each other, it feels cold and disconnected.

Take a look at the following statements someone may write to you. What’s the fact-based response you could give? What’s the better, emotion-based response you could give?

Example 1: “I traveled all by myself once to Spain for two weeks.”

Example 2: “The last book I read was a novel about a woman who is torn between two men.”

Example 3: “My mother always tells me that I’m too impatient, and if I’m more patient I will get more of what I want.”

Practice this technique and you’ll find that your conversations leave both of you feeling more connected.

For more tips like this, visit the rest of our blog.

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Four Online Dating Myths (And Why They’re Wrong)

Even though online dating has been around for essentially two decades now, it still seems mysterious to some. We’re here to debunk four myths about online dating that, for whatever reason, some people still believe.

Online Dating Myths You Should Forget About

1. Everyone lies in their online dating profile.

Some people are hesitant to make connections with others they’ve met online, as they’ve been warned time and time again that everyone on online dating sites chooses misleading profile pictures, exaggerates their best qualities and hides their worst ones. While it’s inevitable that some people are less than honest, it’s a much smaller percentage of the online dating population than many would have you believe. Most people are looking to establish a genuine connection, and they realize they need to be honest to do so.

2. Online dating is only a means to in-person dating.

Traditional thinking dictates that after a few conversations with someone online, you either need to meet with them in person or give up on them. Modern online daters, however, know that this logic is far from true. Many online daters get great pleasure from the feelings of camaraderie and connection that you can get just from maintaining an online relationship. It’s often more than enough.

3. People only resort to online dating after striking out offline.

“If you’re looking for women on the internet,” the thinking goes, “it must be because you couldn’t find someone in real life.” Obviously, this reasoning has several flaws. Online dating offers a wider dating pool, profiles full of information on romantic prospects, and the means to chat with lots of ladies at once. Compared to all these efficiencies, many daters simply don’t find in-person dating to be worth the time investment.

4. Online daters only care about physical appearance.

Well, maybe this stereotype applies to people both online and offline. But, if anything, online daters have proven themselves to be less superficial than their in-person counterparts. Imagine going out to a bar: You have no basis other than physical appearance to go off of when deciding if you want to start a conversation with someone. Online, you have a page full of information to read through to help evaluate potential matches.

While some people still believe these stereotypes, more and more are recognizing the legitimacy of online dating as they, and people they know, begin to find romantic success on the web.

For more advice like this, visit the rest of our blog.

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What You Should Never Say to a Woman While Dating Online

Frankly, it’s hard to go wrong when you are dating online. Of course not every conversation will turn into a lifelong romance, but if you’re being yourself and not being too high-strung, you’ll generally get along with the women who have compatible personalities and interests to yours. There are, however, a few things you should never say to any woman you’re pursuing online. We’ve compiled them for you, in hopes that you won’t miss any opportunities because you turned someone off by saying the wrong thing.

When You Are Dating Online You Should Never Say This

1. “I’m still getting over my ex.”

A lot of people who try online dating are recently out of serious relationships, but there’s no need to advertise it. If you’re still at a point where you still need to bring up your ex in every conversation – even those with prospective romantic partners – then maybe you need to take a little more time off from the dating world.

2. “Why aren’t you replying to me?”

There could be many answers to this question. Maybe she doesn’t want to talk with you, and that’s fine. Just as likely, though, is the possibility that she hasn’t had a chance to write back to you yet. But by pestering, you come off as desperate and demanding. Pushing for a response never works.

3. “Hi.”

We’re not saying that you should skip greetings! Rather, we’re advocating for an upgrade on the one word “hi”s and “hey”s of the world, or at least an addition. Make your opening line a full one or two sentences, maybe something like this: “Hey! I couldn’t stop thinking about you yesterday. What’s up? :)” Friendliness and enthusiasm are key.

4. “Your really pretty.”

Not everyone can be a grammar expert or a Scripps National Spelling Bee champion. That said, it’s worth your time to consult a spellchecker. Obvious errors in your messages convey a lack of care in communication. She’ll wonder why she’s not worth the two minutes that it takes to re-read the otherwise-thoughtful message you wrote to her.

5. “Do you wanna sleep with me?”

Come on, man. You’re better than that.

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