In the modern age of routine global contact and international awareness, you might think that society is becoming more and more homogenized. It is a small world, after all, isn’t it? Happily, though, we haven’t become “all alike”, and there are still some cultural differences. So if you are planning to date an Asian woman, there are things you should be aware of in Asian culture.

Don’t Be Ignorant About These Things In Asian Culture

Dating someone from a different culture can be a wonderfully eye-opening experience. Asia, in particular, offers a rich tapestry of customs, cuisine, and culture. As you head to Asia for your date, or even if you stay in and date someone from Asia, be aware of these Asian culture facts.

Gender Roles

Gender roles are traditionally more defined than they are in the West. The man is expected to provide while the women are supporters of the man. This doesn’t mean that men are expected to dominate the women.

On the contrary, the atmosphere is to be one of mutual respect. In dating, men should be prepared to take on the traditional role of provider. Don’t ask her to pay for anything! (Yes, some men still think that is acceptable in the West, but that’s a guaranteed way to have a short date in Asia).

Celebrations and Get-togethers

Many Asian cultures have a lot of yearly celebrations. Children, both adult and younger, are expected to be part of those celebrations with the family. You will be expected to join the festivities, so don’t be afraid to ask questions about the event. Many people are more than happy to explain their celebrations and the history behind them!

The Importance of Family

You can expect to be brought home to meet the parents. Parents in many Asian families still have a degree of say in who their children date, an echo of an older time when any potential date was also a potential mate.

Though some things have changed and you probably won’t need a parental nod of approval, you might still get to meet your date’s parents. Remember to be respectful, as many Asian cultures hold the older generations in higher esteem than people in the West.

Long-Term Thinking

Dating is not the casual affair in Asia that it in the West. While many Asians have had enough exposure to the West to understand the Western concept of dating, the traditional approach is to think about dating in the longer-term. One-time dates are simply not a staple of the Asian social scene.

Although there’s not much difference in the actual date itself, culture has a very strong influence on the dating process. You and your date will be from different cultures, and your date will understand that as much as you do. Being respectful of your date’s culture will help keep things going smoothly between you. This could lead to a wonderful long-term relationship, and you will both be richer for the experience.

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There are a lot of different elements that we look for in a perfect match. Some of them are negotiable. For example, we can do without being too specific with our match’s hair color. We may prefer blond, but if a special person with brown hair comes along, then we won’t mind. But, there are elements, also known as relationship fundamentals, that we cannot compromise on.

How Many Relationship Fundamentals Are In Your Partnership?

The elements that go deeper than looks should never be adjusted just for the sake of being in a relationship. We all deserve someone who can love and care for us, as well as give us the following relationship fundamentals:

Trust

Trust is a non-negotiable fundamental that will allow your relationship to flourish when it is present. Both parties have to trust each other, whether they are in each other’s presence or not.

Humor

You shouldn’t be in a relationship that’s boring and stiff. You should be able to laugh with and at your partner. Because you two are in a relationship, you should be as one, not minding each other’s faults and just laughing at mistakes that are too silly for words. Humor also makes you feel more connected with each other. It fosters the friendship aspect of the relationship.

Compassion & Respect

When one person in the relationship is down, it’s important for the other to boost this person up. Compassion is all about showing kindness and understanding when one person is struggling or has a problem. Compassion can also foster respect, and it can make your partner feel safe to be with you.

Freedom

For most people, it is ironic to say that you need freedom when you’re in a relationship. The truth is, you actually do. You should have the freedom to be yourself. You should think of your relationship and make it a priority, but you should have enough room to grow as your own person.

Learn To Nurture These Relationship Fundamentals

How many relationship fundamentals do you spot in your own partnership? If your answer is “not a lot,” then you know that you have more room to grow as a couple. Don’t give up on your relationship just yet. It just means that you haven’t reached a point where you and your partner are more connected. Put in the right amount of effort and you will eventually get there. For more dating tips, read other posts on the blog.