When you’re online dating on Asian Date or any dating website, you always want to put your best foot forward because you want to make a good first impression. It’s the same when you meet a person offline or in real life for the first time, you want to minimize your unattractive traits.
Unattractive Traits You Should Become Aware Of
However, we tend to have characteristics that make us unattractive. It’s natural to have these unattractive traits, of course, because no one is perfect. But, what you don’t want is for you to show these qualities off without being aware of them. Check this list of traits that may be showing off unconsciously when you’re online dating.
Being Self-Absorbed
A good rule to remember when you’re chatting with someone online is to make way for the other person to tell their story. When you’re self-absorbed, you tend to focus more on yourself. The tendency is for you to talk more about yourself, not allowing the other person to get a word in. That’s counterproductive, don’t you think? How can you get to know the other person when all you’re talking about is your life?
Prioritizing Appearances
Let’s admit that the initial trigger for someone to chat with another person when they are online dating is good looks. That’s how chats or online dating messages are initiated, but, in the long run, if you focus too much only on the outer appearance, you won’t make that much of a connection. This trait is unattractive because it makes people think that you’re superficial.
You’re Bossy
This trait can be a bit difficult to identify, but here’s a good way of telling. Answer this question: who has the last say about whatever? Is it you or your online date? For example, when you want to chat online again, who decides when the next meeting’s going to be? If you find yourself making most of the decisions, you could be showing off an unattractive trait without even knowing it. There shouldn’t be any pressure when you are online dating especially when you’re at a stage where you’re only getting to know each other and no commitments have been agreed upon. Take it easy!
Dishonesty
This is probably the most unattractive trait that many online daters have identified. Let’s say you’re on Asian Date and you want to impress all the Asian women that come across your profile. So, you decide to make something up – a career, status, or a whole lifestyle. Remember that your white lies will catch up to you eventually. It’s pretty hard to sustain these kinds of white lies when you’ve been talking to someone online for a while. Think long and hard about whether you have these traits or not or how much you show them. Be honest with yourself and start with the process of making yourself better and more self-aware.
Bonus Tip: Even though this girl above maybe looks pretty and attractive, her smell wouldn’t be so appealing after smoking that cigar. So loose that nasty habit if you have it, your whole body will thank you, and you will most probably have more success with ladies.
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