If you have already experienced a lot of failed relationships, the question of how do you know when you are in the right relationship with the right person may be burning in your mind. It’s normal. We all want to feel that right kind of love.
You’re In The Right Relationship When You Spot These Signs
The good news is that there are signs to watch out for. We’ve listed a few below. These should help you understand what it means to be with the right person:
1. You’re on the same page about big things.
The first sign that tells you that you’re in the right relationship is your agreement about major things in life. Whether it’s finances, values, principles, or starting a family, you’re on the same page about it. There’s little to no argument about making major decisions because you, most likely, see things under the same light.
2. You don’t feel anxious.
Have you ever had apprehensions in your past relationships? If yes, it proves that they weren’t the right ones for you. Being in the right relationship makes you feel comfortable, secure and safe.
3. Nothing feels forced.
Everything has that go-with-the-flow vibe. You don’t have to exert all your efforts to make things happen. Things happen by themselves in a smooth and easy way. For example, you’ve been wanting to go out on a date. When you’re in the right relationship, you won’t have to drop hints to manipulate your partner to take you out.
4. There is no fear of judgment.
You can be yourself when you’re with the right person. You don’t think about making mistakes as if you’re tiptoeing on eggshells. The right person will make you feel like it’s OK to be yourself. It’s OK to show your true colors because there will be no judgments.
5. You do not pick fights intentionally.
We have to admit that we may have initiated some relationship fights we’ve had in the past to get our former partner’s attention. We never have to do this when we’re in the right relationship. This isn’t to say that the fighting stops. There will be disagreements, but arguments are not made into a tool for manipulation.
Do you spot any of the signs in your current relationship? If not, don’t lose hope. For more relationship tips, read more posts on our blog.