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Jobs That Online Daters Are Most Interested In | Asian Date

Jobs That Online Daters Are Most Interested In

Online dating has been the go-to method for many people to find love and companionship. Despite this, we should all remember that it’s not just a simple search that can land you a lifetime partner. Online daters have their criteria on who to connect and have that date with. New research indicates that one of the major appeals of most online daters is their career choices.

Online Daters’ Top Picks For Attractive Career Choices

We all have our preferences when it comes to the jobs we’d like our future partners to have. Our preferences can vary, of course, since we all have different interests and goals. Despite this, one online research gathered data from around 5,000 participants to find out the most attractive career or job positions.

It has been reported that male online daters prefer hairdressers, nurses, entrepreneurs, teachers, and even lawyers. These are the men’s top five picks. On the opposite end, women tend to check out profiles or go out on dates with men who are writers, chefs, engineers, entrepreneurs, marketing professionals, or artists.

What If You Are None Of The Above?

This is a great question! Not all of us hold top-level jobs that were included in the top five picks of both genders. But, a carefully worded profile with a decent looking photo will get you leads.

For example, women like artists according to the study. But, there are many kinds of artists. You can be a performing artist, a visual artist, or a makeup artist. Creativity and probably temperament are what appeals to the ladies, and not just the job itself. Try to show your creative side on your dating profile to better your chances.

For women, you don’t have to tell a white lie and say that you are a nurse even though you work at a cafe. What men like with nurses is probably their ability to care for people. Highlight this trait in your online dating profile. Do you get the idea?

What The Results Say About Online Daters

To put it simply, the results of the mentioned research shows that we all have our preferences. However, our preferences are not the be-all, end-all. There’s more to us than our jobs or careers. If we don’t hold a CEO position, what we can show is our leadership and ambition, for example. For more tips about dating online, check out the rest of our posts on our blog.

The Value Of Mystery In A Relationship | Asian Date

The Value Of Mystery In A Relationship

It’s so easy to become comfortable with one another in a relationship when you have been in it for years. Over-familiarity could probably be one of the main causes of a relationship going stale. Because you have already seen your partner’s good and bad side, as well as his or her routines and habits, it’s easy to predict the person’s next move. The value of mystery depreciates and that’s exactly what things will be like – predictable.

The Value Of Mystery Should Be Higher In Every Romantic Relationship, Here’s Why

Predictable can sometimes be good because there is a sense of security to it. However, if we become too comfortable, we don’t see the need to do something different or new. This can be one of the downfalls of romantic partnerships. Instead of over-familiarity and always sticking to routines, the value of mystery should be made higher to spice things up. The question now becomes: “How do you maintain a level of mystery with years into the relationship?” Believe it or not, there are a couple of ways:

1. Explore And Stay Curious

It’s important to be your true self when you are in relationships. This means maintaining hobbies, meeting friends, feeding your wanderlust, and so on. You have to do the things that make you a unique person. This breaks the predictability chain.

2. Have Conversations Often

How do you maintain mystery when the whole point of a conversation is to get to know a person? Simple. It’s impossible to always predict what your partner is thinking. When a couple shares new information, it makes the other think that there’s more to be learned about the other person. There’s more to explore and discover.

3. Be Spontaneous Together

While exploring and staying curious is mostly about you, being spontaneous is something you can do as a couple. Don’t just stick to what you are familiar with. Take on new adventures without planning them ahead of time. Be flexible with your schedules to make room for spontaneity.

You don’t have to dread over-familiarity if the value of mystery is high in your relationship. Do share this post if you found it helpful. For more tips on improving relationships, read other posts on our blog.

Relationship Behaviors | Asian Date

You Should Never Again Tolerate These Relationship Behaviors

Did you know that we have several negative relationship behaviors that we deem as normal? We see these actions as non-threatening or trivial. But, the truth is, it’s causing our relationship to deteriorate without noticing it. Of course, there are no perfect relationships but we still need to keep a watchful eye on our partner’s actions as well as our own so our relationship becomes stronger.

Relationship Behaviors We Should All Get Rid Off Today

For all of us to know and understand these harmful relationship behaviors, we’ve compiled them into a short list. See if you can spot any of the habits in yourself and your partner:

1. Consistent Unreliability

Most of the time, when our partner says that he or she has forgotten to pay the light bill again, we just shrug it off. This seems like a normal setting, right? However, what we don’t see is that our partner’s consistent unreliability can cause us chronic stress. We don’t know if our partner will be able to come through for us when we need him or her the most. On the other hand, could the unreliable one be us?

2. Dismissing Emotions

Do you think that your relationship creates a safe environment for you and your partner to say what they feel or what they’re thinking? For you to know, think back at all of the arguments that you have had. Have you or your partner had the chance to say your parts? If not, this is an area that you need to work on as soon as possible. You never want your partner to feel like they don’t have a voice, or that they’re not important enough to be heard.

3. Counting Favors

Relationships are all about team-work. Well, at least it should be. For example, a couple needs to divide the chores in the house equally. However, there will come a time when one person needs to pick-up the slack of the other. It’s great when the person picking up the slack doesn’t count this as a favor. But, if it’s the opposite, it’ll be hard to feel that support and unconditional love is present in the union.

All of these relationship habits are rotting your partnership from the inside. It’s time for things to change and we all need to start today. For more tips on relationships, read other posts on our blog.

Healthy Ideas That Help Give Your Partner Enough Space | Asian Date

Healthy Ideas That Help Give Your Partner Enough Space

More often than not, we think that we need to leave our partner alone when he or she asks for space. This could be true depending on what our partner needs. However, giving space doesn’t always translate to letting our partner be. There are other healthy ideas that we can follow in response to our partner’s need for a bit of distance.

Healthy Ideas That Allow Your Partner To Have Plenty Of Breathing Room

We always feel intimidated whenever we hear the word space because we always take it negatively. This is the first problem we have – we think that when our partner asks for a bit of distance, we feel like it is our fault. We feel like we have to step out of the equation. We don’t necessarily have to. First of all, we need to stop feeling like this. When we have adjusted our perspective of space, here are a few things that we can do instead:

1. Be Encouraging

Instead of feeling like it is your fault, encourage your partner to take some time off. For example, if your partner wants some space because of immense stress, you can say, “Take all the time you need. Or, I can give you a massage, if you want.”

2. Do Something On Your Own

Your partner might be asking for space because he or she simply wants to recover their individuality. Maybe it’s time that you do the same thing as well. What’s the one thing you’ve always wanted to do but never had the time to? Grab this moment spend some alone time too.

3. Share Your Emotions

Before you do this, remember that you have to change your negative perspective on space. When you have done this, let your partner know how you feel when he or she asks for some time apart. Be honest, but don’t get too emotional at the same time.

Among all the healthy ideas here, you have to remember that communication is the most important thing when your partner asks for space. Aside from changing your perspective about it, you have to focus on the reason behind the request. You might have to address the reason or the root itself, but remember to approach things with a positive perspective. For more tips on how to improve your relationship, read other posts on our blog.