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Things That Change When You’re In The Right Relationship

If you have already experienced a lot of failed relationships, the question of how do you know when you are in the right relationship with the right person may be burning in your mind. It’s normal. We all want to feel that right kind of love.

You’re In The Right Relationship When You Spot These Signs

The good news is that there are signs to watch out for. We’ve listed a few below. These should help you understand what it means to be with the right person:

1. You’re on the same page about big things.

The first sign that tells you that you’re in the right relationship is your agreement about major things in life. Whether it’s finances, values, principles, or starting a family, you’re on the same page about it. There’s little to no argument about making major decisions because you, most likely, see things under the same light.

2. You don’t feel anxious.

Have you ever had apprehensions in your past relationships? If yes, it proves that they weren’t the right ones for you. Being in the right relationship makes you feel comfortable, secure and safe.

3. Nothing feels forced.

Everything has that go-with-the-flow vibe. You don’t have to exert all your efforts to make things happen. Things happen by themselves in a smooth and easy way. For example, you’ve been wanting to go out on a date. When you’re in the right relationship, you won’t have to drop hints to manipulate your partner to take you out.

4. There is no fear of judgment.

You can be yourself when you’re with the right person. You don’t think about making mistakes as if you’re tiptoeing on eggshells. The right person will make you feel like it’s OK to be yourself. It’s OK to show your true colors because there will be no judgments.

5. You do not pick fights intentionally.

We have to admit that we may have initiated some relationship fights we’ve had in the past to get our former partner’s attention. We never have to do this when we’re in the right relationship. This isn’t to say that the fighting stops. There will be disagreements, but arguments are not made into a tool for manipulation.

Do you spot any of the signs in your current relationship? If not, don’t lose hope. For more relationship tips, read more posts on our blog.

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What You Need To Know About Dating Women In Their 30s

When you’re dating women in their 30s, you have to know a couple of things. It’s important to know these things because you need to be on the same page as them. If you’re not, you might not get the kind of relationship you want because most women in their 30s have very specific goals in mind.

What’s Inside The Mind Of Women In Their 30s

No matter where you are in life, if you’re dating a woman in her 30s, you have to understand a few things. Listed below are the things that run through these ladies minds. Make sure that you take note of the following:

1. Women in their 30s want something honest.

Most women at this age go into serious relationships. They don’t just date around for the heck of it. You have to keep in mind that they’ve already had the time of their life in their earlier years so messing around isn’t in their vocabulary. There are some that are the exceptions to the rule, of course, but it still pays to be honest and sincere.

2. Women in their 30s already know who they are.

Let’s be honest. When most of us were younger, we played the dating game well. This isn’t the case when you’re in your 30s. Most people have a good sense of who they are. They have clear principles and set standards. You need to respect those principles and standards.

3. Women in their 30s want to meet a man who’s smart.

It’s not just about the looks anymore. Most women in their 30s could care less about what their date looks like. They look at other factors like security, sincerity, family-orientedness, and responsibility. You have to be smart to successfully date women in their 30s.

These are all very basic points. The main idea is to really be on the same page as the woman you’re dating. They take life seriously. Although they might want a bit of fun from time to time, it’s not going to be like dating younger women where the focus is mostly on having a good time. For more tips on relationships, read the rest of our blog.

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Navigating Through Your First Valentine’s Together

You’re a new couple and you don’t quite know how you can approach your first Valentine’s together. You may not even be sure if celebrating Valentine’s is an option or not. This is common in new relationships where it has just been a couple of weeks or months since you started dating. What do you do?

How To Approach Your First Valentine’s Day

It’s cliche to say, but communication is still key. The first thing that you do is ask whether Valentine’s is worth celebrating or if it’s too early. Of course, you don’t want to ask the question flat out. A better technique would be to ask for an opinion. For example:

  • “Valentine’s Day is approaching. What do you think about going out to dinner?”
  • “What do you think about Valentine’s?”

Whatever your new partner answers, it should give you a good idea of what their thoughts are on February 14th. If your new love says that he or she likes it, you better think up good date ideas. If your new love says that it’s one big commercial plot, then skip it.

Gifts

Let’s say your new partner does want to celebrate your first Valentine’s together. What are you going to give as a gift? A card will do since the relationship is new. There are plenty of options in the market. Go for a card that’s not too mushy and deep. Keep it light.

Another great gift idea is flowers. Yes, it’s common, but go for ones that you have handpicked yourself. The hand-picking adds a personal touch to the gift.

Reminder: The gift you’re going to give represents your future thoughts on the relationship. You have to be careful. You don’t want to give a ring early on.

Activity

There are a couple of choices that you can go for in terms of knowing what to do during V-day when your relationship is new. You can try cooking together – this is always a good option. Or, you can go watch a movie at the cinema. You could also go out for drinks.

Navigating through your first Valentine’s won’t be a problem anymore with these tips. Just remember to keep it light and communicate by asking opinions. For more tips about relationships, read more posts on our blog.

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Possible Reasons Why You’re Still Dreaming About Your First Love

Do you still dream about your first love? A majority of us still do, so you’re not alone. Often times, we interpret our dream as a sign that we were truly meant to be with the person. It’s a romantic idea but, in reality, there may be other reasons why we’re still dreaming about the first person who stole our heart.

The Truth Behind Dreaming About Your First Love

It’s true that the first ever person we love will never be forgotten. No matter how many relationships we get into, we still won’t forget the person’s existence. Experts say that it may be because our first love is the strongest love we will ever experience. Could this be the reason why there are still some of us that dream about our first love? It’s possible. Here are other reasons why:

1. You, subconsciously, want your worth to be acknowledged.

Did you have your first love when you were in your teen years? If yes, then that would have made your passion more intense. At some point, if the person did not acknowledge you and you had a bad breakup, you may still want recognition, at the back of your head.

2. You’re projecting your ex onto your current partner.

If your ex hurt you or cheated on you (for example), it’s possible that you’re dreaming about the person because you’re fearful that your current partner may do the same thing to you. In psychology, this is called projection. Your current partner may not be the type who will hurt you in the same way your ex did, but because you already have that scar you resort to projection.

3. You still have unresolved issues.

You have to consider that your dream may be because you have been wanting closure from the person for a long time. Many of us are not aware of this desire, but it’s possible that our subconscious is telling us through our dreams.

We may not forget the person we first loved, but our dreams may have more of a scientific interpretation rather than a romantic one. It’s best to understand how you feel and assess your dreams from a realistic standpoint. Do you want more tips like this? Click here to visit our blog.