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You Cannot Build Intimacy Without These Elements | Asian Date

You Cannot Build Intimacy Without These Elements

Intimacy is synonymous with closeness. In order for a romantic relationship to last, the element of intimacy needs to be present. However, when most couples build intimacy, they find it too difficult of a task. The love is present but, over time, the closeness fades away. This may be because one element to build intimacy might be missing.

The Elements Necessary To Build Intimacy

There are four elements that are essential to building intimacy in a relationship. Before you go through the list, you have to remember one thing: you and your partner have to be receptive. It’s likely that you’re reading this now because there’s a lack of intimacy in your relationship. When you do decide to start rebuilding closeness with your partner, both of you need to be open to each other’s attempt at doing so. Now, on to the elements:

Appreciating Both The Little And Big Things

When was the last time that you appreciated what your partner did for you or for your relationship? If you can’t remember then it’s about time to show your appreciation. You can do so by saying thank you, hugging, helping out with the chores, or treating your partner to a dinner.

Acceptance

Most of the time, when we are stuck in a rut, new things tend to feel uncomfortable. For example, when you and your partner are used to not talking, a random conversation can feel awkward. Don’t mind the awkwardness and just accept the effort.

Both Of You Need An Agreement

As mentioned, if only one of you has decided to rebuild the intimacy in your relationship, the entire process won’t work. Both of you have to be in it together. Both of you need to agree that you will do everything you can to rebuild what you have lost in your relationship. You have to be accountable to each other too. Your teamwork will be tested as you rebuild so if one person is feeling under the weather, the other should compensate and vice versa.

Lots Of Affection

You can’t make a loving relationship without love. Every chance you get, try to plant a kiss, rub your partner’s back, say “I love you”, hug your partner from behind, and so on. These little actions show our partner that we are affectionate.

Remember that these four elements need to be in your relationship for intimacy to be present again. For more dating and relationship tips, check out more on the blog.

Asiandate.com: How To Become More Interesting To Other People

Asiandate.com: How To Become More Interesting To Other People

Whenever we go on a date, we usually assume that the other person will do everything that they can to get to know us better. This is just half true because there will always be people who will find us uninteresting. We also need to remember that there are people who find it difficult to start an interesting conversation because of their personality. Is there any way around this? Is it possible for us to do something to make the other person more interested? AsianDate.com gives you some tips.

AsianDate.com: Tips On How To Make Yourself More Interesting

There are actually a couple of techniques that you can make use of, not just for when you are on dates but, for when you are meeting people in general. These techniques will make you shine more as a person and, as a result, there’s a higher chance of making yourself more interesting:

1. DO NOT Focus On Yourself Too Much

The first mistake that we make is that we focus too much on ourselves. Initially, it is needed during introductions, but after that, you should talk about yourself less. Of course, you can always insert some nice facts about your hobbies or work here and there, but it shouldn’t take up the entire conversation.

2. Observe Social Cues

Because you are no longer focused on yourself only, you can shift your focus to other things like social cues. Observe how the person you meet moves, observe how the other person responds to what you’re saying and then act on. For example: if the person you just meet is showing interest on a certain topic, talk about it more because the response is a positive one.

3. Show Genuine Interest

The best way for you to catch a person’s attention is to show genuine interest in what he or she is saying. Maintain eye contact, make sure that your body language is open (do not cross your arms or yawn), and do follow up questions. Doing all these will make the other person feel like you’re investing your interest in them. Most likely, they will reciprocate.

It’s going to take a few tries for you to apply all three tips in a natural way but practice makes perfect. For more dating tips, check out the rest of our blog.

This Is What The Fear Of Breaking Up Can Do | Asian Date

This Is What The Fear Of Breaking Up Can Do

Do you always experience the fear of breaking up? It’s inevitable when you’re in a relationship. Although no one wants to break up with their special someone, we cannot ignore that there’s always the chance of the partnership not working out. Maybe, this is why most of us can’t get over the fear of breaking up. However, even though the fear is present, you shouldn’t focus on it because it affects your romantic relationship in a very negative way.

The Effects Of Focusing On The Fear Of Breaking Up

Every time you focus on the fear of losing your partner, or the fear of the end of the relationship, your attention shifts away from the happy things that are currently happening in your love life. These are the following effects:

You Become Clingy

Because you’re focused on the chance of losing your partner, the tendency is for you to do everything you can to keep him or her. So, even if your partner doesn’t necessarily need or want your attention, you give it anyway. This can get very annoying and it’s likely that your partner will feel suffocated.

You Lose Interest In Your Partner

You will likely reach a point in your relationship where you’re going to lose hope. If you heavily concentrate on the end of your relationship then what’s the point of working to better something that won’t last a long time?

A Study That Backs This Up

A study that was published in the journal of Motivation and Emotion involved studying couples who were already in a romantic relationship. They were divided into two groups. The first group was given the statistics of the list of failures in their relationship, while the second group was given false feedback about the breakup with their current partner.

The results were very surprising. The study found that couples who moderately experienced the fear of breaking up bettered their relationship in a number of ways. However, couples who experienced a higher level of fear were found to have reduced positive feelings in their romantic relationship.

The bottom line of all these is that the fear of breaking up will always be present, but this shouldn’t be your main focus when you are in a relationship. Focus, instead, on developing your bond with your partner so that your blossoming love will last longer. For more tips on improving your love life, read more from our blog.

What Girls Do To Impress A Guy | Asian Date

What Girls Do To Impress A Guy

If you were asked: “How can you tell if a woman is trying to impress a guy?” Would you know the answer? Most likely, you will say that you can’t really tell. That’s how we men are. We’re not very observant, most of the time. And, we can’t really figure out what’s on women‘s minds, do you agree?

Signs That Say She’s Trying To Impress A Guy

Well, you may not feel like this anymore after reading this article because we are going to list down common signs that will tell you a girl is trying to impress a guy. These are the usual tactics that your dates may have used on you:

1. Ignoring You

It’s ironic, isn’t it? But, yes. When a girl likes you, she will likely ignore you to catch your attention. She’s playing hard to get, and yes, she is creating a little bit of mystery to heighten your excitement and attraction to her.

2. More Than Just A Pretty Face

From a woman’s perspective, good looks will only get her thus far. To impress a guy, even more, ladies will usually strike up a conversation that’s very intellectual or captivating. Or, they can show off their talents. The aim is to show the guy that she’s more than just a pretty face – she’s the whole package.

3. Subtle Eye Contact

Have you ever experienced your date making eye contact with you and then quickly looking down or looking away? She may be trying to impress you. She might be playing a scene in her head where she’s trying to captivate you with one stare and then looking away to leave you wanting more.

4. Life Of The Party But Still Down To Earth

Most women know what men are attracted to. There are basically two personality types that men gravitate towards – fun and down-to-earth. A lady who is trying to impress you will assume both roles. She will try to get your attention by being the life of the party, but then draw you in by radiating her down-to-earth vibes when you finally have a conversation.

5. Sense Of Humor

This is actually an extension of the number four item. Ladies understand that guys like a woman with a good sense of humor. Women also understand that in order for them to be the complete package, a guy has to be comfortable with them so they don’t take themselves too seriously.

So how many signs do you spot with the woman that you’re dating now? It’s good if you spot a lot of signs because that must mean that she’s really into you. For more dating and relationship tips, check out more posts on our blog.